alixisaloser Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 is that wrong? i want him to think im happy with his decision because he knows if i love him and i miss him, hell push me away and hell know he has me wrapped around his finger. should i tell him the truth or keep it the way it is? Link to comment
kiama Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 Urm I think maybe its best you keep it that way. Admitting you're miserable isn't going to change anything so I'd say best have him thinking you're happy, even if you're not. A happy person is always a more attractive person after all - and the best thing for dumpees to do is NOT be that morbid person. Its hard I know, but hey, even if they never come back to us, we do want to remain as much of a 'nice thought' in their minds as possible. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 Urm I think maybe its best you keep it that way. Admitting you're miserable isn't going to change anything so I'd say best have him thinking you're happy, even if you're not. A happy person is always a more attractive person after all - and the best thing for dumpees to do is NOT be that morbid person. Its hard I know, but hey, even if they never come back to us, we do want to remain as much of a 'nice thought' in their minds as possible. W-T-F???? what kind of advice is this. no offence. honesty is better. do you really wanna keep staying miserable without him knowing??? i mean come on. you need to speak up and if he gets hurt and dumps you over it, is this really someone you want to be with?? why do people eat crap when they deserve better. Tell him the truth! Link to comment
kiama Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 W-T-F???? what kind of advice is this. no offence. honesty is better. do you really wanna keep staying miserable without him knowing??? i mean come on. you need to speak up and if he gets hurt and dumps you over it, is this really someone you want to be with?? why do people eat crap when they deserve better. Tell him the truth! Sorry - Im under the impression he dumped her - already - and when asking if she was happy she said 'yes' even though shes sad about being dumped.... Did I miss something??? Link to comment
civilservant Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 I don't think putting on a happy' front is a good idea. If you can't be upset after being dropped when can you? Link to comment
Sweet Venus Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 Because telling someone who dumped you you are miserable is only going to make them feel pity for you..or guilt at best. I don't know if I would use the word "happy" if I wasn't happy...but I wouldn't elaborate on being miserable either.Maybe say something like "I'm ok....just moving on with life".... Link to comment
kiama Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 If you get dumped, it's pretty obvious that the person who was dumped is NOT HAPPY. hello, they were dumped, who is happy after being dumped. thereforee I find it totally odd, for the dumper to ask 'are you happy' - the dumper is either 1) thick or 2) feeding off knowing the person he dumped is not happy. It all depends on the circumstances I suppose - but it sounds like this guy is a bit of a control freak, by the way the OP typed her post... Link to comment
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