too soon for an invitation such as this?

[Raincheck]

I've been seeing a girl I really like for a couple of weeks now. Even though its only been a couple of weeks and a couple of dates, we are really into each other and I know it is mutual. In about a month, I will be graduating from the police academy and was thinking about inviting her to my graduation soon. Do you guys think its appropriate given its only been a few weeks of dating and by then it would be close to two months if we are still seeing each other?

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I imagine that your family will be going to the graduation? That means she will be meeting the family. I think it would be better to have a talk about exclusivity before inviting her to the graduation. If you are not officially boyfriend/girlfriend then I would suggest not inviting her because that would be awkward for her, for you and even for your family.

[ghost69]

i would tell her you are graduating. see if she says 'i would like to go'. i'm sure she will understand family will be there. any common sense person would know this.