Why did I realize too late?

[Graiden]

Well I have gotten my self into a bit of a tricky situation. Basically i started hanging around this girl, and it was obvious that she liked me however I wasn't sure I felt the same so I tried to just remain friends with her. However the more I hung out with her and talked to her the more I began to like her. Unfortunately by the time I realized this it turns out she started talking to her ex again and wants to be with him again and now I think she has lost interest in me! I still talk to her as a friend but thinking about it hurts because I know I could have been with her had i been more sure about what I wanted. I think it is too late now for me to make a move because I don't want to interfere with hr and her ex as I'm not the type to get involved with other's business. Any suggestions or did I blow it? Thanks in advance I know i wrote a rather formidable wall of text!

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I think you actually dodged a bullet. If she went back to her ex, clearly she was not over her ex. At least you weren't going out with her because chances are she wouldn't have stuck around...she would have dumped you and gone back to her ex.

[Graiden]

Do you really think so? The problem is that I really like her now, and I can't stop thinking about the way things could be be. Maybe you are right but at the same time I feel like I should try my luck, I would hate to just let us slide apart and never kno what could have happened. I have enough regrets and I would rather find out the hard way if things aren't gonna work rather than just not try.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I would suggest that you let it go. She is back with her ex and that is where she wants to be...if you pursue her now it won't be fair to her nor to her boyfriend and it will just lead to heartache for you.