He gets mad at other things and takes it out on me

[julybabie83]

Me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months, and I am pregnant with his kid. The past few weeks he has been extemley moody. He gets mad at other things and takes it out on me. I am so frustrated. Please help.

[mermayd]

I am sure that the reason he has had a change of attitude is because the realities of him being a father are beginning to surface in his head. How far along are you? If you are beginning to show or are showing totally, maybe the visual factor has hit him that this is really happening, that it is not some movie or story. How does he feel about being a father? i think you should talk to him about this and try to comfort him because it really sounds like his moods are rooting from this newfound reality.

[julybabie83]

i am not even showing. i am only a few months along.he really doesn't want me to have the kid. he thinks it will ruin our lives. we are still trying to decide what to do. he toldmehe will be there no matter what i decide.

[mermayd]

He's a good guy, he's not forcing you to make any sort of decision. I am sure his moodiness is comeing from the fact that there is this new hardship for him to deal with and its not an easy task. I am sure that he is having difficulties accepting this...