masturbation

[SaRaH69]

Hi i am a women and I have never learned how to masterbate. When ever i've tryed it i dont get nice feeling i should get. so i think i might be doing it wrong cna someone out there please help me!! thanks

[chakka]

Get youself a vibrator... That should help!

 

[vegas852]

I don't know if I can describe how for you to masterbate.

But I would love to show you how. I'm very good at it.

It would be fun to share that with you.

Let me know.

 

Vegas

[SaRaH69]

im sorry im straight

[simulacra]

It's good that you're exploring your own body, even if you don't know what makes you feel good yet. Just be patient and try to be relaxed when you're doing it. Each woman is different so it's hard to say what will and will not work all the time. These are just a couple of suggestions:

 

-Stimulating the clit: I think it has the same kind of muscles that are found on the head of a guy's penis. Experiment with different pressures and speeds.

 

-Watching soft porn (of girls masturbating): even though the actions and expressions are exaggerated, you can at least see visual examples that might help you out or give you ideas to try out.

 

-Fantasizing as you're pleasuring yourself: your psyche greatly affects your physical pleasure.

 

I'm not sure what other suggestion I can offer. Hope the experience gets better with practice.

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[lonelyandwil]

get a close friend either m or f. but perferbly a f and ask her to eat your * * * * * so u know what it s like. I believe you ll enjoy it better the first time having a woman eat your * * * * * out. Than having a guy do it. I am a bisexual man. And some the guys I ve given head to. Tell me that I ve given the best blow job ever. Just try it u never know til you try.

[PsychGirly]

I was just recently advising my friend on how to masturbate.

 

You have to set a romantic setting for yourself.

1) Have some porn playing.

2) Get totally naked and lay down.

3) Buy one of those clitoral stimulators that you wear on ur finger. Not sure what they're called, but it gently vibrates & stimulates your clitoris.

4) Have a vibrator handy.

 

My friend did this & it worked. She dimmed the lights, played the porn, laid down, & stimulated her clitoris with the small clitoral vibrator simultaneously with the dildo penetrating her.

[Flux]

Tried a few times, never did anything for me. Maybe you're just not that way inclined

[girl68]

I hope you're in the right state of mind. What I mean by that is don't think: "hmm I'm going to try to masterbate!" hopefully it's more along the lines of: "hmmm, that is nice... I like that... maybe if someone did that to me I might like it..." then maybe venture onto some softcore porn/ romantic (or whatever you like...). THen maybe you'll be at least visually stimulated... then I don't know try touching yourself... if you like being super aroused first don't dive right in for clit stimulation... that could be too forward.