EOTD Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 I put up a new thread today, "Was i good looking to a Chinese woman". because i have had a few contact me all of a sudden. well about an hour after i posted it. one of the girl's started to talk to me. spoke to her the day before, it was around 2:45am in china at the time and she was upset. she wanted to talk to me. she had a fight with her mother and her mother said that she wishes that she never gave birth to her. She was going to kill herself......... I don't know how long i spent trying to convince her not too do it, but after some time, she finally started to listen to what i said and she was so happy after the ordeal. The whole thing got me so upset, even now i feel so strange. not sure of what was going on. i feel like I need some reassuring words myself. this has done something bad to me this has. I just hope she is ok..... Link to comment
Veroni Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 You shouldnt be upset. You reached out to someone who needed help and hopefully she got help. You are sweet to worry though but it is out of your hands. Link to comment
EOTD Posted February 6, 2008 Author Share Posted February 6, 2008 I had known her for less then 24 hours, and I'm the one she turns to. If someone has placed there trust in me that soon. I then must keep to my side of it and do all I can. Even thinking about is making my hands shake. Link to comment
Veroni Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 You have a big heart. Its nice to know that people like you still exsist. I think that you are dwelling too much on something that you cannot control. Wish her the best but dont let it turn you into a wreck. Link to comment
Sunshine75 Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Wow EOTD, that is a frightening situation! You're a sweetheart for handling it the way that you did though. Maybe the girl didn't really have anyone else she could talk to. Whatever happens with her, you did a great thing. Go find someone to give you a hug. Link to comment
EOTD Posted February 6, 2008 Author Share Posted February 6, 2008 I don't like seeing people in pain and upset, I just hope she's OK. Link to comment
MorbidMetalHead87 Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 You have a big heart EOTD for helping someone you beay knew, Who really did need help. And if it helps I know whats it's like trying to talk someone out off suicide. I know it Makes you feel very responsible for what ever happens to that person. Yet there is so much you can do. But cheer up! this girl probbly is okay. Link to comment
EOTD Posted February 7, 2008 Author Share Posted February 7, 2008 I had to go out today, and when I came back this was on my computer: Maple: are you there?? Maple: hi,i'm ok,don't worry. i want to say that my characteristic is not very outgoing~~ but now,i feel more better. thank you, if not you, i would feel very upset now~~ you are a good man! today, i apologised to my mother. In China,parents are respectable in family. Though I apologised to Mom,i also feel sad from bottom of my heat,i don't know the reason~~~ Good night! Maple: and,thank you told me that scentence ,"I love you", nobody told me these worlds before.~~~ Maple: these words Now I'm happy. Link to comment
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