is it wrong....?

[atticus]

would it be wrong of me, when i'm a bit tipsy, reaching the boarder line to being drunk, and my best friend (female - also my ex) is drunk, and looks like she REALLY wants to kiss me. to make a move...

 

would that be wrong of me?

 

havn't done it, but felt like it, and received signlas from her, which made it seems as if she really wanted me to kiss her... ie. her looking straight into my eyes, from 20cm away for a few minutes, without looking anywhere else...

 

anyone?

[Cid]

Humm....... that is a hard one to say. know what I would say go for it if you want to.

[neva_black_n_white]

i feel that if the spark is there when you are and arent 'tipsy' then i would go for it.

but dont ever let it turn into the old...'i was drunk it was a mistake line'

maby you should talk to her, see if the eye contact is there when she isnt drunk, the feelings will be much more intense and appreciated than when drunk.

 

but thats just me.

kel

[akatoro]

I agree with Neva.

 

I also believe that these things are better in a sober state of mind. Then it's more honest and pure, so check for signs of interest from her and if you do find them, go for it =)

 

Good luck

respectfully//

Akatoro

[Cid]

they are right you know sober is the probly the best was to go. But like my last post sead it is all up to you.

[Gotabe3c]

I mean...I agree with everyone else. Sober is probably the best way to go. The first thing is...Would you happen to have a girl. Is that why you may be asking. If you do the answer is no. It wouldnt be right. I would check to see if there is anything between yall when your not drunk. Alcohol sure does seem to affect your decisions. Most of the time they are unwise. You wouldnt want it to be weird the next day would you. Be sure to check all the alternatives first. Make sure there is atleast a little spark left in her eyes to want to kiss you.

[atticus]

no, i'm just wondering because i still have really strong feelings for her... and i dunno, she might not want to tell me that she feels for me again, or still, or wants to kiss me or make a move or whatever, because it initially was her who broke up... dunno.

[neva_black_n_white]

life is based around not knowing half of the time. so taking the chance is more than likely what you have to do.

if you are so unsure about the way she feels then i would have to say not to kiss her when 'tipsy' or 'drunk' this would not be the right thing to do. you sau you dont know if she will talk, maby she is thinking the same about you.

all life events have several different paths its up to you which one you chose.

dont miss out on something that you will regret but dont regret something by going about it the wrong way.

kel