Men are interested in my dating history...

[crazygirl69]

"I couldn't care less about your sexual history," says Thomas, 19. "I don't care if you've had one or 20 partners; just don't tell me about any of them."

 

 

is this true????????????

[Osiris]

Greetings crazygirl69,

 

Normally person who likes you would be interested to hear more about you. Not about your ex- boyfriends.

 

Osiris.

[musicguy]

I agree with Osiris..sexual history isn't really what a lot of people don't wanna hear about.

 

Musicguy

[Guest]

That's one of the things that are better left un-said, for both of your sakes.

[crazygirl69]

ok i see where u guys are coming from...but all of the guys that i have gone out with ALWAYS ask me my "sex history"......and like they say its a BIG thing

[Ash]

My observations lead me to feel that sooner or later, this issue will come up in just about any relationship. What seems to work best is if both partners have similar experiences. I'm sure there are some who truly can see past it all, and may continue to do so effectively forever, but I fear that a lot of us are not that way. For example, it didn't really bother me until well into marriage, and I felt I'd missed out on things my wife hadn't as a younger person.

[j-boe]

I was going to date this one girl... But she had 39 partners. Now I only have sex with her.

 

Odd logic isn't it?

 

-j

[neva_black_n_white]

i wouldnt say that its a good area of conversation to go into, but i wouldnt lie also, but i completely understand what your saying, all the men i get with usually want to know about past relationships etc. but i guess its a part of knowing you like everyones said.

would you like to know about there past? maby if they ask you, you could possibly ask them becuase then it would be open to discussion, i cant see the problem.

 

and lol j-boe. dont you feel that you could get too emotionally involved with her? how would you feel if she went of with another man no longer wanting sex? do you feel that you would miss her more than just the sex aspect?

just curious. kel

[Cid]

I dont care but that is me. It all depends on the guy.