need advise about an ex boyfriend

[V8Stang]

hey i have an ex. boyfriend which we have started to be friends with benefits.....does that mean he still likes me or not?? help!!!!!!!!

[Gotabe3c]

Personally, friends with benefits may just mean he just wants to get something out of it. Im not trying to say he doesnt like you, but you should talk to him about it. Im sure he will say no baby, friends is fine, and keep on as long as he still getting anything beneficial. Try jsut being friends and not doing anything. If he doesnt try to leave you and go for many other...it may be a sign that he still likes you. I would recomment not doing anything with him and see whether or not he really likes you, or if he is just in it to get some.

[V8Stang]

hey thanks for the advise. We dated about a year ago and have been friends since. The hole thing friends with benefits started about a week and a half ago. He just kissed me. and we talked about it. and agreed to be friends with benefits. So do you think he still likes me or no?? let me know asap.thanks 8)

[DealingWithIt]

Being friends with "benefits" means he can have sex with you and still be free to date other women. It doesn't mean he wants you back...I'm sorry to say. Does he like you? Well, he "likes" to have his cake and eat it too.

 

My advice to you is to just stay friends period. If you still have feelings for him and you're letting him use you....then you'll be hurt in the long run. You two haven't slept yet and you are asking if he still likes you...the answer is NO.

[V8Stang]

yeah but see the purpose is i like to have my cake and also eat it too. plus i want to date other people and not be tied down. i dunno....lol

[Gotabe3c]

Theres a large chance that he knows you like him. He will most likely take this to his advantage and go with it. Pretending that he may like you as well. So he will just use your body and soon enough throw it in a trash can like most girls have been dealt with. I would recommend talking to him, maybe a few of his good girlfriends or otherwise. It may be a wise decision to make sure he doesnt want to use you as just a play toy and act like a good friend.

[mzcookie]

well, im in the same situation as u. but im not doing so good with my ex now. he says that he likes me , but he wants a sexual relationship. he says he sees me more than a friend. so, im tryin to figure it out too. i told my ex about how i was feeling about this him and i dont think he is ready for a relationship * to be commited*. he doesnt want to be tied down. i dont know if hes seeing other girls, but he told me he isnt dating anyone cus it would be playing around. i dont know about this either. some of my friend saying he is using me for sex, but cant see that in him. others say its okay cus maybe u'll have a chance n see what happens. but in ur case, u need to talk to ur ex about it and find out what he really wants and his intensions are. cus for my ex, he doesnt know wat he wants. so im deciding on whether or not to move on or not. i love him soo much that i cant let him go.. im sure u feel the same way. thats why ur having this relationship with ur ex.. but do wat u feel is right. dont hurt ur self. im hurting right now very deeply than breakin up wif him for the first time. he doesnt seem to show me how he is feeling. so if u need to talk to me about. just send me a msg anytime. since were in the same boat. we could help each other for the good part. well u take care of urself =D