Mr SIBLEY Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 Naturally every person has a sex drive, I recently split up with my ex and haven't masturbated or thought of anything until a few days ago. I didn't do anything but am feeling either nervous or anxious. I thought about masturbation but could only think of her and naturally felt It would be cruel to myself to do it. My friend suggested that I find a girlfriend, but that would be horrible. A) I'd never use a woman for sex. B) It would be unfair to them seeing as it would be to get over my ex (or at least that is how I would feel). Can anyone help me out, because I am really confused here. Oh and I hate pornography so that's also out of the question. Link to comment
Ampire Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 Thats a hard one....I can't masturbate without porn or anything of that sort or the only thing I will think about is my ex and it will just depress me...even when I use things like porn or whatever I still think of her, its messed up...I wish I didnt but I gotta wait till I heal for that to go away... Link to comment
lukeb Posted December 1, 2007 Share Posted December 1, 2007 As long as you know you're healthy I wouldn't worry about not masturbating. Allow yourself to grieve for what you lost and move on from there. Link to comment
Mr SIBLEY Posted December 1, 2007 Author Share Posted December 1, 2007 As long as you know you're healthy I wouldn't worry about not masturbating. Allow yourself to grieve for what you lost and move on from there. Does that mean that it is okay to masturbate over her? Because I think I would regain some need for her. Or do you mean not masturbate because I feel as if I need to relieve myself sexually so I'm naturally confused. Link to comment
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