Boredoutofskull Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 I fear that If I don't distance myself from this girl, I'll end up getting hurt...Again, It's been happening for about a year, I'll fall for her, get too close and get burned. I need to distance myself from her, but...She's a drug, and I'm hooked, it reminds me of the song "Poison" By Alice Cooper. Is there any help on how to get away from her? It's not as easy as it sounds... I long for her voice, but, what's the purpose of covering rotting meat with honey anyway? I'm sorry if my thoughts are kinda jumbled, I'm a wreck right now.](*,) Link to comment
crookster_man Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 I hear you buddy, just use your will power to make it happen by creating a successful environment. While you have the will, delete her form your facebook/myspace, online stuff. Delete her phone and block her emails. It makes NC far far eaiser if you do these things while you still have the drive. That way when you are tested it will be far and few between. Set yourself up for success. Link to comment
HeartSounds Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 Hang in there bro. Delete all her contact information and take it one day at a time. If you do that, each day will be easier than the last, and you'll make it through. I know the feeling. I've been going through it too, and I have to say that I am doing much better than I was not too long ago. You can do it! Link to comment
Boredoutofskull Posted November 13, 2007 Author Share Posted November 13, 2007 God this is really tough...What If she talks to me about it, what do I say then just "Hey I love you but I need to get away from you."? :sad: Link to comment
crookster_man Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 God this is really tough...What If she talks to me about it, what do I say then just "Hey I love you but I need to get away from you."? Basically, yes. You can do whatever you want. NC is about you and it's for you. It's about giving you time to distance yourself from the girl and live life without her. A detox. If she contacts you, you can respond however you want. You can tell her to leave you be, you can tell her that you miss her but you need to be alone or you could not respond at all. Up to you. Link to comment
someguy88 Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 why aren't you pursuing her? Link to comment
Boredoutofskull Posted November 14, 2007 Author Share Posted November 14, 2007 Because Were just friends and she doesn't like me like that, Why should I hurt myself pursuing a girl with no interest in me. Link to comment
someguy88 Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 Because Were just friends and she doesn't like me like that, Why should I hurt myself pursuing a girl with no interest in me. I feel ya bro. I'm in the same stupid boat. Link to comment
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