Should we be roommates

[lauralied]

Should I be roomies with a guy friend I have loved for years, who currently views me in sisterly terms? How can I deal with him bringing another girl over? Who has done something like this successfully?

 

And is there a chance he'll change his mind, and we will fall in love!? I'm such a fool for him!

[Ash]

It doesn't sound like a particularly good idea to me. If he doesn't love you, don't count on him fallin gin love just because he's a room mate. I suspect you'll feel pretty badly when he's with other girls, and you may grow to resent him, and that would make living arrangements tough as well.

 

I think it would be easier on you if you didn't do this, to be honest. Sorry if you didn't want to hear that, maybe others will advise differently.

[tmakinen]

Hi ,

Alot of the times it's hard enough to live with having roomate(s). In your case it sounds like a very bad idea. You already know where he stands.

He aint gonna change any time soon. Where you live should be a place of sanctuary not a place for drama. Take care.