i need a yes/no answer

[confusedwhcbyahoo.com]

i am just curious, how many of you out there would not mind being in a relationship whith someone you are vey much in love with, but doesn't love you, or are they are not sure if they do? and how long would you pursue that, if your ansewr is yes.

all i need is a yes or no answer. whether you want to give reasons, it's up to you-it would be nice though.

thank you

[Ram00Dodge]

umm No, you cant make someone love you not matter how hard you try, either they do or dont

[S4il]

i agree with ram, especially if it's dealing with women, either they like you or they don't...physical attraction, your personality, or they are involved with someone else...whatever the reason are.

 

But stay optimistic, that person..could one day come to his/her senses and realize that your someone special to them, and take things to the next level, if it's currently at a friendship.

 

"That sort of thing happens all the time my friend."

[confusedwhcbyahoo.com]

hmm, i'm a girl. and when i said relationship, i meant as a 'couple.'

thanks for ur replies...everybody else, what do u think?

[DoorMouse]

Not happening for me, I couldn't be with someone that didn't love me in return, that's almost like wearing shoes that are too tight, it makes things uncomfortable and bad for the both of us.

[LonelyGirl]

No, definitely don't go down that lonely road. If he doesn't love you or isn't sure then don't try and make him. It will probably end up being worse on you in the long run. Especially since you are the one who is in love. You'll be the one who gets hurt. Let go and wait for someone to return your feelings. I know it's hard especially since you've got feelings already but believe me...you'll be better off. Take it from someone who knows!

Good luck and be strong.

[sana555]

I'd say no, it'll be a lot of trouble for you later, you will get hurt.

[Cid]

I would have to say No. I wish I could say yes but it will just hurt more and more as time moves on. Try to find someone that feels the same for you. Well I hope this helps.

[neva_black_n_white]

i want to be able to say yes but unfortunatley my answer is no....im willing to try but trust me it hurts when you do. like ram said at the beginning you cant change someones mind.

kel

[its your life]

You can't get into a romantic relationship with someone that doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about them. Things always go wrong with "why didn't you get me as much for MY birthday" and "lets spend more time with me not your friends". If you just be with someone because you need to be around people then you are selling yourself short. There is someone for everyone out there!

[4EverNight]

I would say no. Emotionally you may want to pursue it but logic should tell you not to. If you did pursue it, eventually you'll get to a point where you would give up if the feelings are not returned. Don't waste precious time on someone who won't be there for you but spend it on someone who will be.

[ksc010]

I am in a situation like that right now. I have been patient and given him a couple of weeks now, but I am reaching the point where he either needs to "crap or get off the pot". I am not going to wait forever and let him take my self confidence down. I am better than that and if he can't see that, he is not good enough for me.