Question about being frigid...

[RobustMouse]

I've read that men in general like to experiment and try new positions and such, how would you feel about a girl who was quite frigid in the sense she didn't like giving or recieving any kind of oral, or trying new positions?

[Kitz]

im not a guy, but personally, i like sex not as only an emotional connection but a fun thing aswell... if you're only going to do it missionary and not go down on eachother or anything.. wheres the fun in that?! you'd get bored of that one position so quickly. it can be nice to mix it up a bit

 

is there any reason to why you're so "frigid"? like, low body confidence or religion or anything?

[sddeaston]

I would be put off and most likely would discontinue the relationship. Actually, I can guarantee I would discontinue seeing her.

[beloved]

I'm a girl so just thinking from my perspective i would think that if someone was 'frigid' it would indicate other problems...trust issues, self confidence etc etc. I'm not saying you have to be a porn star to keep a bf but like Kitz said it should be fun! If you are too busy worrying about what you look like and if your doing something right or wrong then how can you enjoy it? Sex isn't a formula, you need to experiment to see what feels good for you and him and mix it up a little. BTW there is this saying (not mine but i suspect its true) that men want "a lady in the street, a **** between the sheets".

[Bonzophuebes1]

Yeah, if a girl just wouldnt do anything other than lay there, I would be gone. It needs to be fun, exciting and pleasurable. One position would become work and after a day at the office, the last thing I want to do is work at home. It shouldnt be work, it should be fun.