Divorced and have been single for 5 yrs, raising three children .. (tough task), but not as tough as it seems for me to date again. He is 9 yrs.. youger than I ... ( bonus). My problem is ... I'm not to sure if I believe him when he tells me he is not cheating on me with his ex. He leaves every weekend to travel to see his son,and stays with his ex .. all weekend, sometimes will even go one day during the week. We have been together a mth and a half and I feel like Im losing him due to my insecureness. In the beginning he said he would tell her about us.. and hasn't yet. Is he living a double life. Does his ex think he is out of town working all wk.. when he is living here... I dont want to say anything to him in fear ... he will flee.. he has told me thats why his last girlfriend didnt work out... Please help!