Moonsquaw

I have a five yr old daughter who is out of control.. but only at home, otherwise she is very polite and has also received an award for wisdom in school. But as soon as she gets off the school bus .. she changes.. she gets bold and bossy and always trys to get me to everything for her, and plays very well verbal games with myself and her older brothers.. All of us have tryed many times to talk to her and explain that it is not good for this family to have her upset and yelling all the time.. I have asked her if she performs like this in school and she says NO... then I ask why do you do it here and she says.. So I can get my way. Now, recently my son asked to move out because of her... What do I do...she wont stop.... please help.

Divorced and have been single for 5 yrs, raising three children .. (tough task), but not as tough as it seems for me to date again. He is 9 yrs.. youger than I ... ( bonus). My problem is ... I'm not to sure if I believe him when he tells me he is not cheating on me with his ex. He leaves every weekend to travel to see his son,and stays with his ex .. all weekend, sometimes will even go one day during the week. We have been together a mth and a half and I feel like Im losing him due to my insecureness. In the beginning he said he would tell her about us.. and hasn't yet. Is he living a double life. Does his ex think he is out of town working all wk.. when he is living here... I dont want to say anything to him in fear ... he will flee.. he has told me thats why his last girlfriend didnt work out... Please help!