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I am wondering guy I been kinda dating. Well He is younger than me. He just turn 18 like 3 months ago i will be 23 this feb. Well last night for new years eve few of us were drinking and he was very drunk and he was telling his family like his sisters (who i work with one of them) that he is fallen for me and he really does like me and blah blah....i want to believe it but other part of me tells me he is 18 and player...so my question is when someone is drunk do you think thats when the truth comes out???

I have to totally 100% agree with lifeiscash. you are too young too even worry about relationships worry about being single and having some fun...

Let me ask something...When you have the person you truley love your soul mate why do people go and cheat?? They really dont love that person enough then if they have to go and cheat?????

In way, I really do believe in soulmates everyone has someone out their just have to be at the right place at the right time. Other part of me says gosh no soul mates ha i don't know if i even have soul mate out there. how long does it take to meet them and everything i just have to sides to this....but i do hope that everyone has soul mate including me.....

omg i am speechless right now.....

I just want to inform you that when i was reading about the wedding and how they met but at the end it does states address where you can reach the couple i think you should be careful. i wouldnt want my address out like that.

just thought i would be nice and inform you about it.....

Well, we could be wrong but for him to get mad about hearing the truth i wouldnt want someone like that myself. the choice is up to you just hope you make the right one....

good luck

That's the case. I would not be with someone like that. Maybe you are too mature for this immature family. If you don't break up with him you will be the one hurting bc he proably will dump you soon

Maybe bc of your age. Which to me you are very mature. Like you said you are younger than him. They just might think he should go with someone his own age. But I say you aren't dating them you are dating him. If he contiunes to takes their side you should talk to him. say it hurts when you do this and this. my saying is if he doesn't stop taking their side now it will be like this when you two get marry also....

Have you try asking them why they have problem with you??

How old are they? and how old are you and your bf?

I don't know but to me I would say yes she is cheating. If she lied to you about the name of the place what else is she lying about....

I would ask her straight out and if she say you are asking too many questions. maybe its best to end it

RayKay, Thanks for your help. I meant to say yes sometimes it can work tho but most cases they don't I am happy yours has worked out. I hope u are right about finding some1 really soon. I want to be with some1. I dont want to be pushy bc that's when it doesnt work or i get the players ones. I need to go have so fun.....

Thanks for the good true words. You are so right. I mean even tho he knew what i look like and we talk on the phone doesnt mean nothing. I fallen in love with guy i know online not the person he really am in real life.

And for the person who said i had bf while i was talking to him. We were friends and nothing more i told him when i got bf and he was ok with it. We break up and i told him we were done. I am not player i am with one guy and only one guy THANK YOU FOR MUCH

I finally found out the whole truth last night. I hate to say this Online Dating doesn't work. If it does work, then it was meant to be.....

I am talking to this guy name Mike for the past almost 4 years now. 4 years is very long time. We would say I love you and everything. Call each baby and hun all that good stuff. He knew what I look like. But that was like 2 years ago was the last time he seen pic. He said he cared for me long. We stopped talking when he found out I had bf. Then my bf and I broke up. Then out of the blue he got online we starting to chat and again exchange numbers and addresses. I send him pics of me as well he claims he send pics to me too. But I never recived pics I try calling/text messages him but nothing. He never called me V-day. We are talking about guy who really cares for me tells me I love you. I was really hurt. But I thought this was the best time he could really show he cared. I forgot about it. Then I never heard from him for like 2 weeks then all at once he text message me saying baby i am sorry i lost my phone had to wait for other one to be send to me. Last night he finally told me in text message after like 2 days i was asking him if he got my pics and does he feel the same. well he said i dont think so. First, I do respect his choice. But he knew what i look like and looks shouldnt matter. i was like well can we still be friends he said yes he does now i am like thinking to my self do i want to be friends with some1 like that? i dont know i am very upset about the whole thing. i just in some venting bc it really does hurt. I do care alot for him. what can i do? He does live in NJ and I live in PA???? We were planning on meeting each other now i am like i dont think so

yes, I agree with the last post. Get DNA test done. If it's your child you do need to stay up and be father. You may not like the mother of your child then that's when you could said no and not open your legs.

How would you feel if you found out that one of your parents didnt want nothing to do with you. How would you feel? The child had nothing to do with it. Just was made by two people......

First of all, When he introduced to you as "friend". To me that's red flag. But guyz sometimes what to look cool infront of his guy friends. I know I am the same way. I found the guyz who play the head games or doesnt know what he wants. But meanwhile I know what i want. I would start playing his games but at him. See if he gets jealous or when you say this is my "friend" see if he talks to you when you two are alone. I think back off see if he says something

If you don't want to have kids right now...then you need to play it safe or not have sex bc it takes two to make babies. You need to stand up what you did. Just b/c it's one night stand. You need to be man

You have to be open and honest. You two need to communication with each other. If not, what's the point of dating???

I can't really understand this. I get few words but you need to spell out the right words for us older people I can't remember the short cuts

To me when guy doesn't want to hear about sexy dream of the girl he is seeing. There is something wrong. Not wanting to have sex. That usually means he is getting it somewhere else. Maybe he's been too stress but sex helps lol

Don't call him or text message him until he does on of them to you. You don't want to look pushy. If he does say he was sorry be like o it's cool around 8:30 after i waited half hour one of my friends called and she and i went out. Dont let him know you waited allllll night for him

I didn't know College have proms. Let me get something striaght you are 16 and you are in college?? If so, geez If I seen 16 year old in college I think wow so smart. I am scared to talk to her. But just be yourself don't impression to be welcome.

Well, I don't know alot of about weed. But I think you should be fine. Year ago, if it's in your system for that long. I am happy I don't do drugs.

I hate this day also. I am 22 years old. Not one thing in my life. O well, I got stuff from my parents but nothing else. Just other day if you ask me....

Don't go beat him up. That's not going to get her back. The best thing is to let her learn on her on. People say it's you ex for reason. Unless it's meant to be it will happen on it own.