First of all I am 24 years old. My husband and I have been together for 5 years but have only been married less than a year. We have a 2 year old daughter.
About a month ago my husband went out of town on a business trip which is not unusual because he goes out of town for weeks at a time. When he got home he admitted to me that he had sex with this girl that works in the same business as he does. They had been friends for a while. I was even friends with her. I didn't talk on the phone with her like my husband did but we talked at events. She was kind of like his assisant I guess, she helped him with different things concerning the business.
I was very hurt about the whole situation. First of all we haven't even been married a year. Second, this happened on the weekend of our anniversary that we met. Most important, since we have been together, his job has always been his top priority and I have always been there for him. I have moved to 3 different states with him for his job.
Now that the story is out of the way, I decided to stay with him. He took a whole month off of work. Now that he is back to work, he will not be working as much. He is really trying to change his priorities and I can see that. The thing is that I am worried that I will never be able to get it out of my mind. I think about it all the time and it just want go away. I don't want to spend the rest of my life being miserable over this when I could just leave and start over. But I also think that maybe this could make us stronger. I feel like such a push over. Please help
