nickaston

Hi everyone, I posted a few days ago regarding moving to the USA to live and work. Just to let you know the latest on that... I had a careers interview on Thursday to discuss Visas, applying for jobs out there etc. It went fine and pretty much confirmed everything I had been thinking-that I need a job first and foremost and I need to get my name accross to people. I'm going to have to someone I know, one of my university lecturers, as he may be able to help. My girlfriend and I have discussed the situation and things seem to be going well. Staying strong and such and supporting eachother. Not sure if she will move here, as Ihave suggested if it looks as though things will take a while, just while I sort things out, but I guess I will deal with that nearer the time. Anywhoo just to say things are going fine and the two of us are doing really well.

Hi, I don't you're feeling yourself. An online relationship, as the previous person said, can work, but you need to meet physically. You can love someone you haven't met before meeting them but you need to meet to make sure it really is love and it's not just what they say that makes you love them. It can be difficult but if you have the determination to make it work it will. I know how you feel about not having the time-I am at uni right now and sometimes I feel like I shouldn't have the issues that come with a long distance relationship, but if you love someone, you will do anything for them. Good luck in finding that special someone. If you wanna talk, my email is email removed

Hi everyone, I'll try and simplify this as best I can for you... I've been in a long-distance relationship for not far off 3 years now. My girlfriend lives in the US and I'm over in England. The reason why we're apart at the moment is because I'm still at university. If everything goes ok I will graduate next year. After this though, I don't know what we're going to do. I have been to see her 3 times and got back from my 3rd visit yesterday (sunday). Everything's going great-we had a wonderful time together and we know now that this is meant to be. We'll stay strong, we've made it this far. What worries me a bit though is what we'll do after I graduate. We both really want to live together asap, as the distance means seeing eachother is really difficult (I won't see her until the summer at the earliest-she is trying to get over and there's no way I can go back until she's visited, as my parents would flip at it "always being me that visits") and we would like to 'test the water' as such before marrying, if we do. So anywhoo, we had a long talk the other week about our future and she's asked me to come and live with her. Part of me is saying yes, part is saying no. On the yes side, this is something I would like to do. I love the people and the country and I know I would enjoy it, but on the no side, getting a visa will be difficult, I need to focus on uni for now anyway. That, and I believe we would be more financially secure here. Don't get me wrong, money isn't everything, just that I would like to be stable before we marry and have kids. I will be in debt anyway after leaving uni. One thing I want to ask you all- does anyone know how difficult it is to get an american visa? I know it can be really ifficult and it's judged on a points system if i am right. I would need to clear my debt, I know that-but I think I need to be married too. If thats not the case and i just need to prove we are serious, how do I do that? Right now I'm kinda confused and I don't really know where we can go from here. I want her to live here. She could earn more and she wouldn't be leaving much-she says shes not hugely keen on where she lives or works, and she only really has one good friend that she would be leaving, and of course her family, which I know is a big thing. Feel free to comment and if anyone wants my email so we can talk, it's email removed (you need MSN messenger to talk). Thanks for reading.