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Day 4 - not having a good day I'm drowning in memories today, and I can't believe how well I felt yesterday?! Why is this journey so difficult? I wish I could move on faster. Oh well, I guess a bad day had to come eventually. This too shall pass
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Day 3 and I actually feel great! Going strong and I am accepting and embracing the no contact. If he contacts, I will not answer. Why? Not because I am trying to get him back. But because I am ready to move on. I feel a shift has happened! I did not think like this before I used to think that NC would get him back. Now I think that NC will get ME back.
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That was very brave and a big step forward. And wow, I feel the same way! Every time I see a message on my phone, I go crazy inside. I can barely do anything and I just have to respond before my life can go on. The more I look at my phone, the more depressed I get. That's why I started putting my phone away when I go out so that I won't constantly look at it. Day 2 for me too. Stay strong! You are doing the right thing and you are not alone.
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Day 1 for me too - And this time I am going through with it! Starting on Valentine's Day, and I am leaving my phone at home and will not check it today!! Instead I will go have fun and give a great Valentine's gift for my friend! I will stay strong! And if he contacts me, I will ignore it. I know it's a trap. I will just fall back into the hole again like I have been this past month. It's just not worth it keeping contact when someone who constantly uses you as a doormat.
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Yep. He has depression so it is hard for me to just let go of him - at the same time, I can't move on.
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Still on day 0.... This is bad.
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Day 0 for me again. I had a weak moment and texted him - ended horribly of course. Alright, I need to let go......
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Ok, here we go! I am new to this, but this challenge will help me move on, I think! So far I'm on day 4 of no contact... He did text me this morning - but I have decided tonight not to give in and text him back! Yikes, I hope I can last.... goodnight everyone