SillyShelly

hrmm... Well, maybe try paying attention to what she does on top... if she likes that, compair that to what you are doing... Also, since you aren't actually having sex, kissing while your on top might help if she seems not to be enjoying it. Neck, ears, down the chest...get the idea? Hope that helps a little

if you can, take a shower or bath

My question is: Am I the only female who gets more aroused or hornier during my period? My boyfriend of 4 years says I am. To be honest, I do have a low sex drive during the rest of the month-- probably because I've been taking birth control for the last 5 years before I even had sex due to really bad menstrual cramps. I'm not going to whine about all the details of my relationship as of right now...but I will say that this situation is grossing him out and frustrating him since I could really care less about sex the rest of the month and he's not getting enough. If anyone else has ever been in this situation, I'd love some advice on either overcoming or fixing this. I feel like I've become really frigid for three out of four weeks of the month. I'd really like to know if I'm the only one or if any other female has gone through this? Thanks!!