Day 2
But maybe this should be day 1 again. Last night, I called to tell my daughter goodnight and then had to speak to the ex about picking her up today after school. She was obviously frustrated about something and chose to take it out on me. She told me I needed to come pick the rest of my stuff up right away. I'm staying at my sister's house temporarily, so I reminded her of that and told her there was just no room and she'd have to wait till I get my own place.
We hung up and I began to cry because she was so mean to me...I couldn't believe how cold she could be. After a few minutes, she calls back nearly in tears and apologizes for being cold, she was upset because she got into an argument with the neighbor about the dogs and decided to take it out on me. I told her an apology wasn't necessary, thats just how things were and she again apologized, then asked me to come over. Ha! One minute she's telling me to pick up my * * * * , the next she wants me to visit her.
So I told her that it wouldn't be a good idea for me to go over and then we hung up, but not before I agreed to go over today (while she's not there) to do a couple of quick chores with the lawn. We both are responsible for the house (we're leasing) and I don't want a huge bill when the lease is up and the lawn isn't maintained so I agreed.
The hardest thing is that I can't go completely NC because of our child, and we both are using the times we have to communicate to talk about other things. Its not just her its me too and I need to stop.