rita

I have been in theopy for almost two years and it doesn't seem to be working. I don't want to lose this very special person I am with, so any addice is helpful to me right now.

Girl, if it hurts you then it is wrong. Before you start worring about him think about you self first. Take care of number one and that's you. Love and respect yourself. You seem like a bright person, so listen to that little voice inside screaming that something is wrong. If I were, I'd leave. The honest truth is, this may be just the beginning of a rocky road. So pave that road smooth and leave, girl.

I am twenty and I was sexually abused for eighteen years by my father, then had abusive boyfriend for one year and now I am in a healthy relationship but I am finding it hard to have sex but also to talk about it. I was wondering if someone had any advice how to over come the fear and anixity?