ok, i have a question that might sound stupid, but i duno. ok...i have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months, and we LOVE kissing and everything. the only problem is, we lay on her bed, and lay close to eachother, and i end up getting hard, and on two occasions, i have ejaculated. one time she knew, the other time she didn't. how can i avoid this? it's not like i am trying to...it just happens. i don't want it to, cuz then it ruins the whole thing. please help.