Long story short… my ex and I were together for 2 ½ years and lived together for the last year. Without warning she breaks up with me. I’m devastated and still very much in love with her but try to accept it and try to move on. She becomes very cold towards me and almost seems to be enjoying the pain she has caused me. I find out that she had been cheating on me for the last 8 months of our relationship. I’ve never felt pain like that in my life. That was 3 ½ years ago with no contact in between. It has been a very long road to recovery from what I now see as a serious trauma to my psyche. I still think of her every day but have moved on. Everything in my life now is going great and I’m getting married in two months to a wonderful woman. We are both very much in love and happy together. Then out of the blue, my ex sends me a package of pictures through a friend of mine. The enclosed note says that she came accross the pictures and thought I should have them. She hopes all is well with me and goes on to say that she’s “happier then I've ever been I've been in a great relationship for almost 3 years now I get treated like a princess, I finally got my boob job and I have a great job”. This just knocks my right on my a!s and I find myself reliving the entire break up. My fiancé is very understanding about the whole thing and together we burn the note and pictures in the fireplace. We put it behind us and go on as usual. I guess what brings me here is that I’m disturbed about how hard this note hit me. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
