missfedup

thanks, itsnotlove... i'll be ok, just a very bad day .......... thanks for caring ..

so here's the thing... in the space of a year i have lost my mum, broke up with my fiance, lost my house and my new boyfriend just broke up with me a week ago.. and now my best friend just told me that he can't give me any more advice and that i am all doom and gloom right now and that it is draining him having to listen to me ?????????? feeling like i have nowhere else to turn guys...

i'm pretty mad at myself today... i broke no contact after 10 days to send u my new email address and no response from you.. i know it didn't warrent a response cos it was just an info. email.. but i was hoping i might hear something.... oh man when will this hurt go away............................................................................

you know sleeping with someone means alot to me. it involves giving the most intimate part of yourself to someone. Shame YOU didn't see it that way. You would never have had a part of me if i'd have known you are a self absorbed jerk. only interested in having your ego stroked. If i'd known you were a player i would have walked away. You don't deserve me. LOSER. GOOD RIDDANCE.

thanks for your reply... yeah i know , not very mature right? I haven't heard anything from him for a week now since i sent him the email and i'm not contacting him. I've been doing alot of thinking and i figure if someone wants someone then they will move heaven and earth to get them. If they don't then they don't want that person enough. Who wants to be with a person that doesn't want to be with them 100 per cent and reciprocate 100 per cent the same feelings ? Who wants a relationship that is one sided and only one of you putting in the effort? So, i am not contacting this man ever again.. it's up to him. And if he does, he will have alot of making up to do. What's your story moonchill? I'm sorry, i haven't read all the threads ..... take care ... We all deserve the very best and if these men are not giving it then they are not worth bothering with anyway.

hi everyone, i'm new here and i need some advice.. Do u think this no contact thing works when the 2 people haven't been together long? I was seeing a guy for about 3 months, long distance so didn't see each other very much really. We hadn't got to the stage where we were saying i love you or anything but i fell for him and had feelings for him already. Just last week we had a bit of a run in cos we were supposed to be meeting up but he couldn't make it but didn't contact me to let me know.. just nothing at all. So i emailed him to say i was disappointed he hadn't even bothered to call me and he emailed me back to say ..... that he really liked me but that he just had too much on at the moment with work and that he can't handle a relationship right now. I was and still am really upset cos i thought it was working out ok.... I sent him an email back saying i wish he had let me know that he wasn't ready for a relationship from the start and that i had started to develop feelings for him. I added that it hurts. And also that i hope down the line a bit we can remain friends cos i like him alot. i got no reply and that's it since 6 days ago. I have not contacted him since. He did say it doesnt mean he never wants to see me again, and hopes we can still get together ( whatever that means) Also he recently got divorced 6 months ago and he has a son who is 17. any advice would be appreciated since i really like this man but i don't know what to do now. He lives in the US east coast and i live in London but i travel there at least 5 times a month for my work. thanks everyone