I'm facing a major dilemma in my life...
My father has been working out of state, leaving my mom, 11-yr old brother and me staying at the house we have in California. Naturally, I sort of became the father figure in the family. I'm obligated to take care my mom, brother, and most of the housework. My father provides the financial support, and he comes back and visit us every two months. My family has been in this situation for more than 3 yrs.
Well, I'm turning 21 this christmas and I've been thinking about moving out of the house and getting my own independence. I suggested that my dad should buy a house at the city he works and move the family with him. But obviously, my parents are not fond about my idea. They simply don't want to make the change at this point and expect me to stay home till I graduate from univeristy(which is another 2 yrs away). They offer to pay for my tuition and bills if I agree to stay home and take care of the family.
So here is my dilemma: Should obey my parents' wishes? Or should I go against their wills and be on my own? What do u think?
