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Day 4 NC. Last night was tough, i kept laying there in bed thinking when will I hear from her again? Then I prayed, got up, played guitar and got some excellent sleep. If that's as bad as it's gonna get I think I'll be just fine. You really shouldve asked for 'space' when we started daring post-BU in a gentler kinder way. Why is it you're so sweet and loving for a month straight then a light switch is flipped and you're acting like the crazy person your mom is. If this is an indication of what's in store for whoever you're with in the future then God help his soul.
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Day 3 NC 7 months clean today!!! Hell yeah! Too bad you broke up with me 4 months into my clean time leaving me vulnerable and wanting to drink and use over you. Well I didn't. And by you not sticking with me through the hard times you don't deserve the years of happiness I could have brought you. You choose to drink and party daily, how's that been working out? Continue to boost your ego with attention from random guys and I'll continue to raise my self-esteem by not only abstaining from drugs but your psycho indecisive ass as well. Sianora.
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I'm on Day 2. We've been broken up for 3 months and the last month we dated, had an awesome time, and generally shared an intimate month together. Boom! She wants space all the sudden. I'm giving her a full month. If, at that point no contact has been inititiated then I will continue NC permanently. I am not her lap-dog. I am not expendible. I told her I loved her and respect her wishes for space but after 3 months apart I think she's just playing games. Nights are the worst an truthfully we have awesome sex so I miss that too. But a little physical gratification ain't worth the heart ache and the longing for a re-established relationship. Love is turning into hate due to all the drama and game-playing. I've held my tongue. Silence speaks volumes louder than cuss laden rants. Good luck guys.
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Day 1 in the books. Day 2 now. Previously I've been polite when contacted now I may just not respond to any contact period. It's human nature to want what you can't have. Seeing how my ex reveled in the post-break attention now she gets none. No flowers, no compliments, no acknowledgments that she exists or that I want her back at all. I laid my heart on the line and she told me to move on so that's exactly what I'm going to do. Chicks often times say one thing and mean another: well she gets what she asked for. No contact is easier is you dwell on all the negative aspects of the person, fellas. I don't want her back anymore. Who's pushing now?
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I've been reading up and my perception of NC is making damn sure Im not the one who initiates it but if Im contacted then to be polite and upbeat. Now this only applies if you want your ex BACK. Me? I'm undecided. Regardless Ive been replying to her texts so Im on Day 1
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Guys if you want your ex back would it be counter-productive to ignore her calls and texts? Or would it be beneficial to respond politely and only when contacted? My problem is Im undecided if I want I want her back or not after chasing the past two weeks only to get a little sexual contact followed by a text the next day "I'm sorry that was inappropriate of me, I feel bad." * * * * that-I'm a guy and love sex but Im not going to be used when I want a relationship not a friends with benefits tease.
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Day 0 and going to head into Day 1 with some damn conviction!!!!
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Ok back to NO contact. I suck at this but I have to take the wind out of her sails so I can coast along for a change.
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Ok she called, I answered. Texted back. If Im weak now, when she initiates contact at night I am doomed. I love this girl but Ive been clean for 6 months and she literally gets drunk every night as a coping mechanism so even if she comes to her senses with time, I can't live with an alcoholic. Co-dependency is a hard thing to get out of. God grant me strength.
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Man she just texted me some stupid crap about her friends, I don't want to piss her off by blocking her out but I don't want to be her * * * * ing friend!
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And I must note that when we were together she was very much the clingy one and after this split (our second) Ive reeked of desperation and it's time to get my self respect back, with or without her! I'm a true to form Sagittarius so independence is my M.O. Where's she's a wushu washy Pisces... Sag/Pisces hard combo!!!
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Sup guys! Awesome resource here. Had a gf for 1.5 years I love dearly things didn't pan out and a lot of it's my fault. I've tried no contact a few times but with this support group Im going to do it for real this time!! Everything else Ive tried (flowers, logic, generally being sweet, rejecting the absurd idea of friendship) has failed! So starting today, June 30; NO CONTACT for a month. I figured she'll miss me and reconsider or Ill heal more thoroughly and it will help me either way. We've been apart for a little over a month. Wish me luck and GLTA!