Stevieneedshelp

How do you become unshy around guys. I like able to do things with them.

Hello I am A junior in highschool also and know Exactly how you feel. I have never seen my self attractive o anything and I am really shy also. The way that I got over my shyness around guys was to act like they were one of my best friends and just had a conversation with them. I mean didn't start the conversation but I talked to them when they talked to me. and as far as with the people asking you out go for some that fits what you want don't feel sorry for a girl and say yes because you will just hurt her and yourself. So go for the type of girl you want and Please don'tgo for looks. Cause they are not everything trust me. Well I hope I helped Jon.

I am 16 and i think i might be falling in love, with my BEST FRIEND. I am not sure though. I have known him for like 1year and 1/2. We did date over this past summer, but then broke itoff because of our close friendship. We are closer then ever now, but I stil really like him. We flirt around and he acts like he still likes me cause my friends come over to me asking if we have another thing going on because of the way we act. I would do anything to make him happy. Like even set him up with one of my friends that he likes. Even though it hurts me to think that she has a chance with him and I do not. He doesn't know that it hurts me, But I have really strong feelings for him. I think of him 24/7 just about, with things to make him happy. So can someone help me figure out what to do. PLEASE!!!!!! Thanks