NotYetJaded

I was in your shoes a couple of years ago. I can tell you that she is probably thinking the same thing but is just to shy to react and has the same concerns you do. (offending you, etc...) My friend and I had talked about our curiosity to be with women and then one night I brought it up again and we started to kiss. One thing led to another and I think you know what happened next. After experiencing this with her it led to us having playfull kisses when we were drunk and it even led to a 3-some one night. It was never akward or strange between us, honestly it made our friendship stronger. We both have boyfriends and it never caused any problems in our relationships with them. This girl is someone I have known for years and she is my best friend in the whole world. If this girl you are attracted to is one of your close friends then I think that you should tell her. Or even just kiss her one night when it seems like good timing. I can remember being so nervous and when I finally did it I was relieved to find out that she had the same curiosity. And most likely she is felling the same way as you according to your boyfriend, right? Do you think he would make that up? Just go for it. If she is your real friend then she will not judge you or anything. It sounds to me like everything will work out for you. Just be open with her and be true to yourself. Good luck!!

I was in your shoes a couple of years ago. I can tell you that she is probably thinking the same thing but is just to shy to react and has the same concerns you do. (offending you, etc...) My friend and I had talked about our curiosity to be with women and then one night I brought it up again and we started to kiss. One thing led to another and I think you know what happened next. After experiencing this with her it led to us having playfull kisses when we were drunk and it even led to a 3-some one night. It was never akward or strange between us, honestly it made our friendship stronger. We both have boyfriends and it never caused any problems in our relationships with them. This girl is someone I have known for years and she is my best friend in the whole world. If this girl you are attracted to is one of your close friends then I think that you should tell her. Or even just kiss her one night when it seems like good timing. I can remember being so nervous and when I finally did it I was relieved to find out that she had the same curiosity. And most likely she is felling the same way as you according to your boyfriend, right? Do you think he would make that up? Just go for it. If she is your real friend then she will not judge you or anything. It sounds to me like everything will work out for you. Just be open with her and be true to yourself. Good luck!!

I have been friends with this guy for many years now. We are the best of friends. We tell eachother anything and everything. We talk several times a day. Ever since the day we met we have been drawn to eachother by this magnetic force. This bond we have is unexplainable. Recently, I have started to develop stronger feelings for him. And now, I am in love with him. I love everything about him. The way that we connect with eachother is perfect. Sometimes I can sense he is feeling the same way, but I am not sure. He got drunk one night and called to tell me that he loved me. Then another night we shared a kiss. Unfortunately, these "I love you's" and kisses are only when we are pretty drunk. He calls me all the time and always wants to spend time with me. How do I know if he is falling for me too? I know the best way to find out is to ask, but what do I say?? Is there a way to hint around without directly saying "I am in love with you". I am so scared to jeapordize our friendship. I don't want to scare him. Is what we share simply "platonic"? Lately he has been calling me so much and if I don't answer he will call and call until I answer. Is it possible to fall in love with your friend and is it a good idea? Please help!! Any ideas or advice would be greatly appreciated. I am so confused!