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thats what am thinking........shes just having a little fun.i dont no if shes just after a little experience with guys and using me......i know shes the type of person to use people..i just dint think she would use her friends like that?.i know shes had a few boyfriend's...i dont ask her how her relationships are going i dont think its my bussiness to be honest . and i know its hard giving me accurate advice if u dont know the whole story. and alot more than that has happened.its been a little further than that aswell. but we've never had sex. altho we've been very close to it. but my brother walked in at the last moment and we stopped.. but i dont know if it would of ended with sex..we were just rubbing and touching while laying on top of me while we were undressed......but she does other things that suggest that he dosent have feelings for me its just the small things like if we watch a movie she dosent always sit near me. she may sit on the other sofa.....or when watching one in my room she'll lay at the other end of the bed. and if she sees a good looking guy on TV or even when we're out together she'll say hes good looking or wotever.itsa pretty messed up situation......i should reallytell her about how i feel. is there anything i can say that will get her thinking..maybe tell her somhow thay i love her but on a subliminal level?....hahaha. our ages are me being 16, and her 15....yes we are young haha. i dunno if theres any more advice you can give me besides how i can break it to her that i love her? ..id rather go with the subliminal approach ..it isnt obvious and it sounds kinda fun..what do yall think?

this is pretty embarrasing but oh well. ok this has been bugging me for about 2 days now and i cant seem to understand Why!...its nothing really that big,....but it was strange , ok, so .....me and this girl are very very good friend's....we are not in a relationship wotsoever, ok so ill start from the beginning. .we like to fight alot. have a litle harmless fun ..ya know, but this one time we took it too far and we ended up kissing and she went down my trousers.....and u know the rest (note: we didnt engage in sexuel intercourse) ..so anyway ...a few days after that happened, we were laying on my bed watching a video , and she said "you've got a hard-on havent you", i said "no", and she felt like my trousers to see if i had, then she rubbed her hand on my T-shirt and said "ewwww" like she had a problem with touching down there and after what happened a few days earlier(note: i didnt have a hard-on , it was just the way my trousers were). now i cant get my head round why she done that? mixed signals , i dunno ,anyone have any ideas?

its not that i DIDNT want to do it, its just that i thought she was ust joking around, it didnt hit me till later. and yes i am shy , but we are VERY close friends..probably best of friend's..and am not at all shy around her..its like...i dunno. its like theres no need for me to be shy around her........ its not that i want to bed her..no its nothig like that. but if i could go back i would do it just 2 see where it went.......theres a thread created by me somwhere, that explains our situation more, i wont go into detail, about it, buuutt, we was once lovers along time ago . and it just didnt work out, and so we made an agreement that we should get romantically involved. with each other. and just be really good friends....but am falling in love with her....and i dont really know if the feelings mutual.....it may sound like it by the way i explain it..but shes a bit of a flirt around everyone..

everyone kisses diffrent and everyone likes to be kissed diffrent. my advice would be, like crookster man said, go with the flow, dont just start forceing your tongue into his mouth, let it start slowly , if he made the move, then just follow his lead. copy his lip and tongue movesments, hmm well with this girl when she kissed me. i just copied her lip movesments and got into a flow, she liked to softly kiss with the lips then get into using her tongue.then she stopped with the tongue and got a little rough and kind of demandingly kissed me, .. so just do the same go with the flow you'll get the hang of it,

hi, its me again, somthing very special happened today. and i hink i ***ed it up. so anyway........ this is how it happened. well i rang my friend up. and asked her if she wanted to come round and watch a video with me. so she accepted , and she came round. now about half an hour into the movie. we started fighting. and i eventually pinned her down, i started slowly biting on her neck and kissing her neck . and i got the impression she really liked it....then she asked me a question. i was shocked, and went all shy, she asked me to pull her thong out.....now i then responded with "are you serious" and she said "yes" then i said "why cant u pull it out" and she said "becuase your holding my hands" so i let her go..and she pulled it out herself, then we sat back down and watched the film , about 10 minutes later, she sat up ...(by the way ,we were on my bed) and she said "pull my thong out" she was facing me and she had her trousers pryed apart. i being very shy thought she was just messing around having a laugh. so i laughed and said "no", now after the film was finished she spoke a bit and then she left, then when i thought about what i passed up i starting kicking myself.i felt like an idiot. do u think i should of gone ahead and pulled it out?, maybe she wanted it to go a little further? and what i done or didnt do i may have gave her the impression i dont have them type of feelings for her!? and she may never give me another oppotunity. so what a really want to know is ,......why did she ask me to pull her thong out??because maybe it was just a favor or she wanted me to put my hand down there?, also, if i did give her the impression i have no intrests in her, and she never trys to make a move(assuming she was), ...what can i say or do to let her know i am still intrested. am thinking next time i see her...(more and likely 2morro), i should make the move.....how should i go about this, what shall i do, what shall i say? DAMNNNNN! i feel like an idiot... ....

i dont no what to do at the moment..confused and all, if i am going to tell her how i feel . what should i say , how should i go about it'?,..is there anything i can say that will get her thinking about it like "what does he mean" like on a subliminal level...or maybe i can talk her into telling me how SHE feels.......i kinda want to know if she has any feelings for me before i make a move. i dont really want to go up face to face and just tell her my feeling's...because like ive said, she has a boyfriend, and is very happy with him. and i arent going to steal her off him. hes also a good friend of mine, his cool with us being friends tho . so its an awkward situation.......any help would be greatly appreciated......id rather take the subliminal approach, get her thinking, sounds kinda fun too.........and to answer the question's. 1: i think we have matured and learned from past relationships, and am thiking if we did get involved it actually might work out.....we share similier intrests. we dont have the same tastes in music or movies, but we both like the same kind of hobby's and enjoy doing things together. 2 would love to be with her. and if shes willing ,then so am i, but am afraid,afraid that if she dosent have romantic feelings for me and shes still totally serious about what we said, then she wont trust me , and we may drift apart...but if it does happens, great. and if the last one was a third question then: i just want her to be happy, if shes happy with just being friends.....so be it, i aint really worried about what i personally want, i want to make her happy, and if that means just being friends or being a couple......so be it.

thanks for ur advice. buuuuut we promised each other along time ago we would never get involved......because it didnt work out the first time, so we continued being friends and to this day still friends..probably because we kept our promise...but we enjoy having a little fun together.we date other people tho , she has a boyfriend at the moment....and she likes him alot. ..we never become really intimate., wejust joke and just basically have harmless fun, times are good, but i really really am falling for her, and its painfull being away, i really need to to talk to her about that.but i dont really no how to break the ice, i dont want to ruin our friendship , i dont no how serious she is about whatwe said to each other a long time ago. but we are still young. and theres plenty of time,.... gilgamesh: i know her really really well, not intimately. i know how she likes TO be kissed. but am just not sure on her body language.i cant tell what shes thinking. i cant tell what she wants and what she means in what she says, she deffinetly isnt a tomboy, but she likes to be rough when fighting as in, she'll bite slap and scrach(ouch), shes funny, really really outgoing, and bubbley, full of life, and always up for anything..the type of person who will try anything once. she flirts alot, i know her hobbys and intrests. i know the type of alchohol beverage she likes, the type of guy she like's. her favourite meal, the music she likes her favourite movie and TV show. but when it comes to her body language, and by what she says and what she means. am clueless.its really hard i dot no if shes enjoying what am doing or not, shes clostraphobic(sorry about the spelling), so she dosent like me laying on her and holding her arms tightly close to her stomach or chest, and ican tell because she starts breathing fast and she pulls a face like shes scared, and she asks me to give her room to breath. so am assumping that if she dosent enjoy somthing sheyd tell me , i know she wouldnt tell me if she DID enjoy it, damn ..wish i could just figure her out, its a complicated situation.

o.well ive got this friend, we're not really in a relationship with each other, but we are very close, and i do really love her, but she dosent no , but anyway , tonight, we were fighting with each other, and i eventually pinned her down and i said now am going to torture her, and i started blowing on her face then she said she hated it when people blew on her neck , so..i went for her neck, and started slowly but gently blowing on her neck, and softling biting her neck , she didnt try to struggle with her arms to get free, but she kept moving her head from side to side, she said it made her "cringe" and made her "tingley" she was kinda breathing heavily and laughing when i was doing it...........i was working the bit of neck just above the shoulders and near the back of the neck , and ive heard girls like being kissed on the neck ,soooooooooo, my question is, do u think she was geting turned on by that, and she liked me doing it?....or what?...and also where else do girls like being kissed or teased? how can i tell if shes getting turned on, or if she likes me doing a certain thing, or if she dosent like me doing it?...............i know all girls are diffrent in this department. ..but what can i expect her to do if she likes a certain thing or if she dosent?... .your help and advice are greatly appreciated.

hey, i need some help on this subject, oky. i have a friend, knew her all my life, her mum is actually my mums friend from waaaaaaaaay back , before i was born. so anyway , i have a brother her age who use to go school with her, now when she stops over. i have a very strange feelng she has feelings for me, now the only problem is , that she is younger than me ,only just turned "13" and am "17" she actually likes spending alot of time with me, she does all the following "she laughs at my jokes" , "she likes being next to me" "touching my arm "strangely enough she likes to play fight with me" "when i look at her she laughs and smiles" , i also do the same, its like we look each other in the eyes theres a pause , for about 4 seconds as we stare at each other , than we laugh, i try not to but i always end up smiling, when we talk she talks about what she does with her friends and stuff and what she gets up too,but then again she dosent really ask about me, friends hobbys what i like doing,she dosent live near us, she lives not to far away , about an hour drive away and she visits , now am not sure if she likes me or not, because if she sees a guy she likes she'll say his fit , and shes also got a boyfriend. but then i think is she really even old enough to have feelings to make her do the things she does , and i think am starting to get attracted to her but wait. before this gos ANY further , i need to tell her that us isnt possible, well not for another 4-5 years anyway,but id feel awfully stupid if i did and i was completely wrong , and she dosent have any feelings. but she is very very VERY outgoing, i dont just mean outgoing i mean really out going ,like she'd get up on stage infront of hundreds and hundredsof people and sing dance whatever, shes also cheeky aswell, so am positive she would have NO problem telling me how she really felt. ok so this is what i need i need some solid ways to tell if she likes me or not, while talking maybe i can say somthing? and if she replys withthe right thing?, i dont think posture and body language is important , shes outgoing and isnt shy around me in the least, ive very recently heard of this way its rumour but "when you are talking to her/him, look into her/his eyes and if they are dilated it means one of the following" *shes intrested in you *shes intrested in the topic of conversation *or she just isnt getting enough light, so hereyes dilated to allow light to pass through so she/he can see clearly , ill try this 2morro also , i really need to get this mess sorted out before it goes too far. and it becomes real ***ed up, if the parents click on , get suspicious, it isnt going to look good, especially on my part. i need to somhow talk her into telling me how she feels , without making it to obvious.....obviously oh and i also no what type of guy she likes and i dont fit that description to well...she likes half caste/black guy's.am not to sure about facial features..and...am quarter caste, BUT i look white. you can tell am quarter aste tho , ...but hey, maybe personality shines brighter than looks and i wont be to selfish to the person who made this thread ill give you some advice.....hopefully you will get down to this point and hadent left halfway through my long-ass paragraphs of writing "ok the reason she may be talking about her boy-friend is : well theres really 2 possiblitys..... 1:shes trying to make you jelous, hoping that u have feelings for her so u wil tell her how you feel/ask her out, or even fight for her love, that is.......if she is an attention seeker and loves all the attention, if not, thats probably not the reason" 2:she may have or may not have feelings for you, BUT she is also commited to her boy-friend and loves him,so shes tryin to tell you in a less painfull way that you shoulnt persue her. again i could be wrong, its really hard to tell, what kinds of stuff was said at the amusement park? what do u mean by messing around? like kissing? hugging? or just joking around , ...also what does she say about her boyfriend? , maybe shes just like you, trying to figure out if you like her or not. trying to make sense of it all. keep ya head up tho , if things were ment to be the'll happen, just give it some time, keep speaking to her, learn more about her, her feelings, her likes and silikes build a solid friendship up then take it rom there.