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Well, our relationship was in the pits. We were very self destructive. She was out of town and was not returning my calls as usual, so I text msg'd her saying that she doesnt have place to return to. Well I called her bluff and lost, she took her things and is now with her parents. I didnt mean for that to happen, I just wanted her to talk to me properly on the phone and have enough respect to for me to give me a few seconds of her time and not just always her family. I did use that threat in the past. But so did she.

It has been NC in a way, because I was finally able to stop contacting her. As of right now, I will not contact her and the only reason she has been contacting me is because that is something she wanted. I truly did not expect her to call, and for the next call, your guess is as good as mine. I really did not think she would even consider calling me, I was quite surprised. But I am not sure if she will contact me again. Its day to day... But I have to commit to my promise of not contacting her

my wife and I are NC. Its been a total of three weeks of pure NC. I have finally been able to do it. She wanted space. Week 1 - NC, until the weekend she called to change phone plans.... Week 2 - NC, until the weekend she called and said she misses me.... Week 3 - NC, I broke and called on the weekend, I said the last few days were hard cuz i missed her a lot, she said that the last few days were hard cuz she missed me too... NC started again.... What the heck is going on? Am I being taken for a fool, she wont even speak to the counsellar, and I am seeing her regurarly.

So my wife are NC, because she took her things and left. She needs her space, and I have finally been able to give it...damn cellphones...lol... This is day six for the second time. Last week, after 5 days, she texted me and we talked for 1.5 hours. She only wanted to change the phone to her name, but the counsellar said, "at least she did call". After our talk that day, she did say "things have to be like last week", which means no contact. So here I am day six and its the weekend. I thought she might call. Its really hard, I cried again last night. I am using NC, for two reasons. To finally give her the space that she has always wanted, and to show her that i love her enough to give her what she needs. Also for a chance to work on myself. I know that God has a plan for everyone, I just hope God will give us another chance to be together and be the couple that we should have been.