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I'm nearing the end of Day 27. Feeling good ps - I never thought I would get here and feel like this.
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Thanks imjgh. It gets easier with the help of my fellow ENAers
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\\ LOL Sounds like a good plan. I'll celebrate with you and eat a few over here in the UK (always happy to eat ice cream) Don't worry about the trainer...maybe you could invite him to join you (is it the cute guy?).
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Nearly at 30 days, go me!!!
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Way to go SG You should have a day 60 party
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Thanks Ekips. I've bolded the important bit. It is progress. Keep up the good work and we'll be here to support you when you have a bad day.
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Yep, I'm a weeble (maybe we shouldn't say that to too many people, we might get some funny looks). I am having a much better day thanks.
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Hi Jellybaby, I was having a bad day yesterday. I've highlighted my fave bit from your post, and it makes a lot of sense to me. As long as your moving forward, no matter how slowly, it's progress and thats good. I might print it out and stick in on the wall Hope your having a good day
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I managed to get through the exes birthday relatively unscathed I did have to come on here as I was a little bit upset. Just thinking about him and stuff. I'm ok now
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Hello peeps It's his birthday today. Am I going to send my best wishes, I think NOT. Will he notice, probably NOT. Am I bothered, absolutely NOT. Hope everybody is ok. The sun is shining here and I'm about to walk my dogs. Today is going to be a good day.
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Thanks Ekips I'm not sure he will notice, but I'm not that fussed. Hope your feeling ok
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It's the exes bday tomorrow, I'm NOT going to send a message I'm going to come on here instead and spread some Cat love!
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YAY, congratulations. Roll on the next 50 days!!!
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Hi guys I am shattered. The events from yesterday really took it out of me, but I'm still feeling good and passing my exam made me feel positive about future events. Going to try and work on some goals/plans for the next few weeks. Nothing major, just little steps. Hope everybody is ok too
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Thanks Pace.
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I've made it to 3 weeks!!! It feels like it's flown by and also feels like a huge amount of time since I talked, heard from, seen the ex...weird! I have an exam today, not feeling great, had a rubbish nights sleep, had a dream about the ex and also woke up with a headache. It probably has something to do with the fact that I have to drive to the college where we met and I also have to go past the town where he lives. It may sound completely stupid to most people but being so close, yet so far away, hurts a little. There is asolutely no chance of me seeing him or bumping into him (which is a good thing). Anyway, I'm sure I'll be fine.
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*hugs* It's tough because: 1) Opening our hearts to someone means we also make ourselves vulnerable and open to hurt 2) Because we let it (thats the cruel to be kind bit) I really struggled at first and it is a cliche to say time is a healer, but it's true. We can either give up or pick ourselves up, dust ourselves down and move on to bigger and better things. I've taken great strength from the fact that I haven't contacted my ex, it has a snowball effect. There were bad days, but they are now bad moments and soon they won't be there at all. I'm concentrating on the people who want me in their life, even if they are on the other side of the country (which in my case, a lot of my friends are) and also concentrating on myself. Hope this helps a little bit and it makes sense.
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Hang in there Hulk. I felt much the same way on Day 2 and now I'm up to day 20 (admittedly after a couple of mishaps). On day 2, I never thought I would make it. But here I am, looking forward to day 30/40/50/stopping counting (which I know I will do eventually).
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Thanks SG. I can't wait to get to day 47 too!!! I'm hoping that a new job (potentially, I have an interview on Thursday), and studying will take up all my time too.
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YAY, I'm into the 20's. Go me!!! Thinking about him more as this week is going on, it's his bday on Saturday and I am constantly debating with myself over whether I should say happy birthday. Which is stupid, because i'm sure he wouldn't be doing the same! Anyway, I'm not down or sad, just getting on with stuff
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Hi Jellybaby, it's good to hear your doing ok. Onwards and upwards
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I'm feeling kind of indifferent today. Not a bad thing though, I'm still smiling
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I'm feeling quite good. I've got an exam and a job interview to keep me occupied next week. Just trying to focus on that at the mo. I hope everyone else is having a good day
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I'm ok, but since my 'wobble' a couple of days ago, I've been feeling a bit down. But I'm expecting low points as well as the good. Onwards and upwards