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  1. pumpkinmoon
    did he expect you to kill urself or something?
  2. pumpkinmoon
    ARSEHOlE!!! can understand why you havent bothered contacting him. How formal does he want to be?
  3. pumpkinmoon
    do you think you will ever contact him again litgirl?
  4. pumpkinmoon
    woo hoo good on you and well done
  5. pumpkinmoon
    Mustang, Well if you wait long enough her reaction probably wont matter to you as much
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    LOL i see!!! well thats something then if she wanted the separation anyway Very few of my friends are single, well actually none come to think of it which makes things even harder. I need some single friends On a lighter note though I wouldnt want any of the relationships they have with their partners so maybe I am the one who is better off after all
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    I know, but it may not be the case, especially if when you contact her she can see that you have moved on. But when you do get to that stage you will either not contact her or you may wish to just to see how she is doing and maybe you wont even care what she thinks
  10. pumpkinmoon
    I'm not sure there is such a thing as too much time. Time heals all, that's what they say isn't it. I think that if its meant to be it will be, you're probably sick of reading this statement, I know I was but I really think it is true and whatever way it goes you will be fine. In time, you will stop worrying so much, I know I have. I think we get to the point eventually when we get fed up of feeling like we do and then the healing really begins then
  11. pumpkinmoon
    I think NC makes us feel worse because we know we are not ALLOWED to contact them and this makes us want to all the more. There is also a hypnotherapy one called positive thinking by our friend paul lol I'm gonna get that one next i think.
  12. pumpkinmoon
    You need to wait until having contact with her no longer bothers you. Then you can contact her to see how things are. But until then don't bother. I know how hurt you have been and you can do without it. I on the other hand didn't wait. But to tell you the truth, I think having contact helped me. I still care obviously just not as much. I think in some way it cleared a lot of my feelings up, not sure which ones or how though lol
  13. pumpkinmoon
    I dont think you can or should put a time limit on it. If and when you decide to contact her then you will feel ok about it and know when you are ready. A month really isn't very long. You could wait to see if she contacts you on your birthday, maybe you will feel ready, and you will already have contacted her by then and maybe you wont. Just give it time. I know it's hard but time really does help.
  14. pumpkinmoon
    I have a feeling I'll be going NC again IF and WHEN my things are returned!!!!!!!!!!
  15. pumpkinmoon
    well its day 30!!!! I did have contact yesterday though so can I have a little bit of congratunlations as i was only 1 day out? lol
  16. pumpkinmoon
    what do you mean he doesnt want NC but he doesnt want to hang out at all? It is hard, but some days will be easier than others. The further you get into NC the less likely u will break it i think. I wanted to so many times but this challenge kind of acted like a spell over me.
  17. pumpkinmoon
    oh you meanie
  18. pumpkinmoon
    Maybe NC isnt the best for you then? I don't know. I'm confused today. But maybe do LC, not much, and dont pressure him at all xx
  19. pumpkinmoon
    lol, i'm getting by quite well on about 4 hours a night/day atm
  20. pumpkinmoon
    I hate the weekends!!!!! I would just like a working week to merge into another at the moment. It has been a hard weekend for me too. And I'm alo ashamed and upset that I never reached 30 days
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    Day 29, Woke up crying again this morning although I can't remember the dream. Getting nervous now that my 30 days are nearly up. I hope I have the self control to act rational, I know I couldn't contact as I was in the NC challenge, it was like a brick wall stoping me but when that wall is gone (tomorrow) I hope I'll be ok lol
  23. pumpkinmoon
    Ah, well I dont think it is breaking NC on your part. If you feel comfortable then I would let her make the contact
  24. pumpkinmoon
    Is your mother friends with his mother?
  25. pumpkinmoon
    Why do you need to get in touch with his mother?
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