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  1. foleno
    You did the right thing. Maybe doing something else. HMM. I think at least you let this person know what they were doing was not acceptable and they will know this behavior is not appropreate. It suck you invested so much of your life in this person, but you just won the lottery. You could have had the kid and the perfect job a few years into it and this girl could have pulled this on you then. You are very lucky. I know it is hard to feel the luck through the pain. I just feel in love for the first time at 25, now its over and I have to ask my self was that love, or just some animal reaction thing that happens over time. Good luck man keep posting of the site it helps
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    My ex the last time we talked seemed very understanding. Kinda almost caring. I said I love you enough I hope your happy and get the love u want from this new love. I said I would delete your number and email. I sent one last email saying I would be here for you as a friend or lover when you are ready and asked if one of the relatives could put my belonging out side, when my ex is away. My ex told me that they lost thousands of dollars in relationships, to get over it and stop bothering me. This scares me. What is the deal with this. Any one have similar stories. I mean my ex never did anything mean. It seemed so out of character. Any info would be nice. I guess were not getting back together.
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    Here is day 7 or 8. I have be doing good and bad. The holidays are coming, and a friend of mine decides to hook me up with a friend of hers to help take my mind of things, I met her, but am thinking about my ex, I Know I have to move on even thou I wish they would call. Well any way this girl is really nice, but I am not motivated to really peruse anything and my friend keeps pushing it so I agree to take her out for coffee and then the girl tell me do not get the wrong idea but I just want to be friends. Then she said me and this guys broke up and I am not ready to date some one, I say so you were not trying to met any new guys now. I just want some new friends. I guess that is what happened and I am just writing it. I really relized my ex is not coming back. I have been exercising every day since we broke up. Have not drunk, smoked or smoked M since then to. Been in counseling , and been wondering was that love. I mean dam. Or are we that animalist were me mate move on and then leave when the attraction goes? Just a thought. I just wish my ex would have been friends, a little closure would be nice.
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    Will it has been 4 5 days, since no contact. Just looking back at the relationship, my ex who I confessed my love to, told me it was up to me to delete her number, This is funny. Yes she said, you can not call me. So offering to delete some one email and phone number should be welcome. I mention that but she said that was up to me. (I deleted her number and email) Ya, but she also said I could have my clothes back, N then did not give them back. She was so nice up until that point. Very odd. I suggested she could have the clothes left on the porch, her brother could give them to me. Heck she is out of town, I just wanted my items back, I wonder if it was because I said I deleted her number and email, but she seemed like that is what she wanted. Do not get me wrong I would do anything 4 this girl, but I will not hurt myself. If she says it over and not to call her, then sure (even thou I said I love you) I will respect ur wishes, and want my things back. No I do not think this is a plan 2 get me back. She is with a new guy. Ya things happen fast.
  5. foleno
    Sbux addict that is hard relapse, especially with stuff about deleting each others phone number (hes idea or yours) Hmmm.. At least you want 2 get over him. The rest of us are still madly hoping this is true love n will be back 2geather B4 Christmas. Trust me, u r not going 2 think about this person 4ever. Or mayB. LOL Sorry. Just making a point. there is a need why u have not released this addiction, if ur trying 2 get over this person n not get them back, just start evaluating ur views of relationships and this need will start 2 reveal it self. GOOD LUCK
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    Congraduations Loveme or leave me for getting to the 7th day of NC. I AM on NC for day 2. I have been loving myself, working on my own business, and just about ready to applie 4 a scholarship. It is very hard and easy not to think about my ex. Hard because I loved her, easy because I love me and have rechanelled all that love back to myself. Every body on this site is a special person, perfect in the eyes of god, a divine create of the univese. You are the first and last person like you. Thier well never be a you like you again, let us enjoy your love, a little pain is okay, but let feel you. Please every one put some of the good things that are happening to you as well as what you are going through. Like I just met a very beautiful doc. Who is super nice, jesus nice. Okay everybody keep enjoying you holiday season. Sean. Any one who would like to talk email at email removed
  7. foleno
    no contact means, no letter during the holidays, even if they are have a nice holiday. right. I mean NC is its over I share love by letting you go. If NC is no contact meaning nothing no emails, hand written letters, teapathic messages. Then I am ready to join the challenge of NC. From this day forth I will send that love to myself. Thanks everybody. bye
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    As I set and wondering why. It was sweet love I was given. Never have I felt for another, and been equally hurt. Were was my closure, at least I wanted friendship, but at last the phone hung up followed by I love you. I never had a relationship. And promised I would return the love, but never did until it was to late. Flowers everyday for two weeks straight. I letter of tears to get back what I missed. Only to find it has been offered to another. The myspace, and tv. So I move on, but my heart remains. Throwing away the picture, trashing the gifts, but keeping the good times, to remind me I will share this with another. Who cried during love making. Who Hums as well. I hummed she cried. Nether can admitted why. But I love myself, and well grow by being happy for her and lettering her go. Sorry if this does not go with the post, but it is what came out. I hope everyone gets what they need. You guys are awesome
  9. foleno
    Hey I was wondering if this was the best approach. Well I was a decent amount of uncaring in are relationship, and my ex has good reason not be with me. I think no contact would reinforce her belief I do not care about her and make her feel right. thanks and good luck to you guys
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