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She is really giving you mixed signals. Perhaps you should SERIOUSLY ask her what does she think about you and your relationship. If she doesn`t take you seriously it`s waste of time to be with her -in long term she will only hert you. Ok, but I truly hope that all will turn better...

I guess that your husband knew how you would react if you hear that he has been watching porn -that`s the reason why he lied! You don`t have nothing to worry about. It`s perfectly normal watch porn sometimes...perhaps you two could do it together sometime?