reknihtwols

I tend to agree with many of the posters here, I just don't think your son is necessarily gay. When I was younger I went to an English all boys private boarding school, several of the boys there (and I do mean straight ones) engaged in just this type of behaviour. While I personally didn't see it, or take part I do know it happened. It just seems to be a kind of experimenting with your body, I really can't explain why it happens but it definitely does and it doesn't mean that he's gay. The only way you're going to find out more about this it talking to your son honestly about it and trying not to judge him over what you saw. If it turns out he is gay then just try to be there and support him, it doesn't make him any less your son it's just his sexual preference. I hope you manage to put your mind at rest one way or another though

I'm 28, my girlfriend is 18 (there's a thread further down about it somewhere), we have no issues regarding age between us. If you both feel the same way, do it and I wish you every success