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Sure my message was a little bit forceful, but I didn't want to send her mixed signals on the subject. I thought that would be an even greater crime. She should not be having sex with her boyfriend at her age. If this is a temptation, then she should get rid of him. Hope that clarifies that part of my message. Also, Its your right to have as many children as you can support (under any condition including poverty and deprivation). I am sure you will grow into the experience whatever you choose it will be. That much can be counted on. Cheers

Dear one, You have to realize that you are not at a very good decision making period of your life right now, and yet the decisions you make still affect the rest of your life. Keeping that child won't benefit you, your boyfriend (whom you shuld dump immediately), nor the child you possibly but not certainly have in you ( you have to ask a doctor ). I tell you this from the bottom of my heart. Whatever you think you are getting into by having a child at your age ... IT IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT YOU ARE THINKING. Don't do it. You will be much happier down the road when you have gone to college, found a real husband who can support you and a FUTURE child the way it is supposed to happen, etc. Do NOT abort your future -- your future child, husband, social life, college life, business life, etc. You have a right to grow up, learn, and be who you can be in the future. You cannot face this alone. Get your mother and father informed so they can help you asses the situation. One more thing dear one. Your mom and dad won't be around forever. You only have a short period of time in your life to make it like you want it to be. I would take that option now and save the child bearing years for later in life. Sorry to hear your troubles. Not everyone will agree with what I said here. But, I don't need everyone to agree with me. And neither do you.

So, she's 19 years younger eh? I could see how that marriage would work out ... NOT. Just live it up while you got it. Go for quality not just youth. Kay sa ra sa ra. Hasta La Vista Baby

OK you are 14, so just get your parents in on this and let what will happen happen. Just make sure she is there too.