I need help and fast...ive been with my partner for 3 years now...ive got 5 kids to my previous marriage. When i met my partner i found out after a month he had slept with a man previous to us meeting and although this shocked me i got over it and put it down to experimenting...we have mentioned it a few times now and on one drunken night we got a bloke to come round so rich could do it again but involve me..i agreed as i was very curious as to why and if he wanted to do this...needless to say he did it and we talked about it and that was that, until now....i found a text on is phone so i rang thenumber to find out it was a man he had been talking to on a gay chat room, it was quite explicit saying he was going to meet and bring condoms with him...My partner said while i was at work he went on the chat room .. not to do anything but to find out if he was bi or not and had no plans of meeting anyone.. what am i meaant to do??? hes telling me he is definitely not bi or gay yet im left here on my own not knowing what to do... PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME