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yes im going to do this as realistically to ask him to leave right at this moment just would leave us in trouble, i feel like every bit of strength has been taken away from me and to be honest i dont even want to leave my bedroom. We live in a council property so i am going to speak to them about a move to somewhere near my family...im also going to speak to work to see if they can put me on child friendly shifts just for the moment..as i do definitely need a plan. Ive kept myself together even after all this with my ex husband as i couldnt break down because of the kids..but this time im scared as i can feel a slippery slide of emotions taking over me. Thankyou all very much for your help..its helped just to talk to people

im not ok to be honest..im a mess ive come from a very violent marriage which took me 5 years to leave him... i dont understand why im letting myself get hurt or even why he wants to hurt me (although i dont think its intentional), im shaking as we speak..hes downstairs and seems to be just carrying on with things but im not sure what im doing...ive got my kids who are my number one priority over everything and my amazing job to consider. why am i so bloody gullable and where do i get the strenth from to tell him to go?

its not about not being able to live with it as like i said i knew about this and accepted it.. its the doing things behind my back that i really cant cope with...what do i say to him...hes obviously as confused as i am. I feel like im being ripped apart as i just dont know what to say or think.

I need help and fast...ive been with my partner for 3 years now...ive got 5 kids to my previous marriage. When i met my partner i found out after a month he had slept with a man previous to us meeting and although this shocked me i got over it and put it down to experimenting...we have mentioned it a few times now and on one drunken night we got a bloke to come round so rich could do it again but involve me..i agreed as i was very curious as to why and if he wanted to do this...needless to say he did it and we talked about it and that was that, until now....i found a text on is phone so i rang thenumber to find out it was a man he had been talking to on a gay chat room, it was quite explicit saying he was going to meet and bring condoms with him...My partner said while i was at work he went on the chat room .. not to do anything but to find out if he was bi or not and had no plans of meeting anyone.. what am i meaant to do??? hes telling me he is definitely not bi or gay yet im left here on my own not knowing what to do... PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME