So, here's my situation...
A buddy of mine gave my email adress to a female friend of his, because she is thinking about studying abroad at the same uni that I am currently attending.
So, one day she added me on msn, and I initiated a convo to be friendly, and to help her in the planning for coming here. We talked about the university and the country I am staying in, and she told me she was going to visit her father here in some days (she lives in Europe by the way, and I (and apparently her father) is living in South East Asia). I found her msn picture quite attractive, and I was probably a bit flirting, but I didn't ask anything personal like her relationship status.
So, a week later she arrives here, and immediately contacts me for introducing her to the nightlife of this city. I was excited, though I had a feeling that she was only interested in having a good time as friends. We met up, joined a couple of friends of mine, and went for a really good night out. When my friends had to leave she wanted to stay there just with me, and we laughed and partied until sunrise. I touched her on her back, but that was the most intimate we came..
So, this sound promising, you might say.......
She has a boyfriend at home!
While she was here we talked A LOT on msn, really getting to know each other faster than I ever have done with a girl before. Though I now had been informed that she has a boyfriend, I probably came off as somewhat flirting towards her, but she really didn't either tell me to stop or brought up her boyfriend while we were talking.
So, the next day I woke up with an "instant crush", feeling really good about the night before and HER. We talked a bit on msn, and I told her to give me a call if she wanted to have a couple of beers later that night as well. She immediately said yes, and we agreed to meet up later. This night, we were only the two of us, and she had dressed up REALLY nice. We had long conversations (still without her mentioning the boyfriend), and hung out at a live concert until morning.
The next day I was going with some buddies of mine for a daytrip to one of the islands nearby, and we had a really good time go-carting and swimming. When I came back to the city, I sent her a text to tell her I was back, had enjoyed her company while she was here (she was leaving the next morning), and that I was really tired after the exciting day at the island. She responded by saying "Oh, so that means you're not able to have a few beers tonight? ". I immediately gave in and told her I was going to take a shower and meet her later.
The last night also was magical, we ended up walking the empty streets until 7am after all the pubs had closed, and it really became a kind of romantic setting... Still, I didn't attempt to hold her hand, kiss her or anything, and she didn't give me any hints other than being really sweet towards me and staying up all night talking.
I could have made this story six times longer, because the memories of these days are surprisingly vivid to me (is it love? *lol*) but I will cut to my questions:
1) Considering she has a boyfriend, what do you guys interpret from her behavior? She has not initiated intimacy or conversations that would compromise her relationship, and I actually think that is admirable if she has some kind of romantic interest in me... (I like faithful girls *lol*)
2) What do I do now? She is in an other country right now (not at home), on a vacation with her family, and she seems very keen on talking on msn (she contacts me whenever she's online). However, still no "romantic" conversations, only joking and getting to know each other better..
3) I do NOT want to break up her relationship, but I am VERY much interested in being her friend in case I get a shot in the future. Any suggestions?
By the way: I am sorry this is written in bad English, as it is not my native language
Any responses would be much appreciated!
