devast

silence is what exactly im doing.. and clinging on to the comfort that this website brings.... thanks already for the people who designed this thing whatever happens to me whether she comes back or not... And as I have wrote shadow, my workplace is unfair for me (i think)... she have contacts here... just like a few minutes ago her brother visited me here cause he is working here as well... I knew she would ask her brother to come and see me once in a while to know how am i doing...unlike me I have no idea what is she doing everyday or...even night..... Anyway, according to her bro she asked him to see me.. her bro even talked about us to her... according to him she did a long pause when he asked her if she still loves me.. however she said... "i don't know"... I just told her bro i am just giving her the space and time she needs.. but in all honesty i told her bro... I am in deep S***t, lost and confused if she'd ever want us back..coz thats only what I want now...to bring us back together.. But I told him, however, if she still wants me back she will know it by herself... Coz i know this woman... shes the kind who will only listen to herself what she think is good unless one has a credible experience over any matter at hand.. And what I fear the most is her "mind".. If she said what she said.. she will stand by it no matter what.... I just hope that "love" is powerful in her that could still overpower her mind in the end...

I am so badly lost and confused.. she had loved me so much for the past two years and in just two weeks she was able to tell herself no more?... that is just too fast... the first week she was still waiting... after the 2nd week all her feelings for me was gone?

guys, I didn't treated her bad the past 2 years.. Its just that I had brought to her attention (again just like last year) how she tries to think to be always right and that shes taking away my confidence to myself and to what I think, because in most cases I shut up myself to end up the argument anyway she have a point although my point isn't that bad... I tried to apologize and cried out loud twice already... but she had gone strong on her mind now...is she just confused? or is it for real? andyg, what did you say you did to make your ex want to come back..I just want to hear about it...Im new here and I dont know how belladonna moderates explicit words...thanks

hey kev... what a coinsidence... we both just had a break up with our gf... we both still want them back... hey kev... my bday just past last feb. 21.. without my gf... I was filled with tears and all.. I have read your thread and I can relate knowing we're in the same page almost the same birthdate and maybe even almost the same break-up date... Hi shadow34... check out my posted new topic... "I need her back".. I want to know what you think... Thanks...

Can anyone help me sort things out what's in her mind and in her heart.. She have loved me so much for the past 2 years..She only hoped to give for my happiness.. I have hurt her so badly... we broke up three weeks ago.. I ignored her when she had waited for me to just come to her the first week and she said she should have hugged me, no questions asked, if I had come the day she called me she misses my voice...It was just about my stupid ego...I hurt her I know.. I tried to see her last week and just the other day to apologize and everything...and that I promised her I wont ask anything from her anymore... I cried so much infront of her... But she said... For the past two weeks she had cried so much and that she had realized everything and she now gained strength to let go of me... She said we have to take a rest... and that we need some space... that maybe we are not really ment for each other...and that we can still be friends..And that her mind now is stronger than her heart... I am devastated because I love her so much...And shes the one I want to marry.. I am willing to surrender my ego to give her everything she needs of me... I am confused now.. Does she still love me? Does she only need some rest? Is there a chance we can still get back together? Because..she is an intelligent woman.. her career status is even higher than mine... When she thinks shes right, she stand by it.. Shes mostly surrounded and befriended by people with higher status in life.. Don't you think she have realized I am not really what she wants and that she sees her future with a man of higher status than hers? Should I quit from work as I don't have appetite for it anymore? If I quit would it make her think she really don't deserve someone like me...But I feel its unfair because she have contacts in my workplace...she'll know what I am doing every step even afterwork (well i am not sure if shed be asking them about me)...and I dont know anyone in her office and I dont know what is she doing every now and then... What is she up to?do we still have a chance? how do I win her back? anyone please...