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Thank you guys for answering, everything was helpful. to 88cookie: Thanks and good luck with your girl. About the looks, they don't really matter. It's advantage if you're good looking and so on but in the end what matters is the whole personality. Glad you've found your sweetheart! to whatsagirltodo: Thanks and yeah I understand what you mean. Actually, i don't ask my friends to introduce me to anyone. I just think that it would be awkward and they'd think I'm a weirdo that can't do anything for herself. So I've never considered it an option. ... Hmm=) An interesting idea, really. But hell, what if they just laugh at me when they find out that I'm single and it's bothering me?? to annie24: Thanks, the problem is also that I can't tell the guy that I like him. I've got some male friends that I do like but I always think that going on would ruin the friendship. Besides, I'm a girl and I think it's a bit pathetic to like beg for a relationship or something, I don't know. to Wilhelm: Thanks.. Nope, I don't have any flaws that people could see. I'm looking after myself, I'm pretty and smart (not trying to compliment myself here). Why I feel I'll never find anyone is because I haven't found anyone yet and I'm that old already. I mean teens go dating, and you have to search hard for any free guy among my peers. I know I have to make an effort and I try my best but I'm not the type of girl who would openly talk to the guys about being single. As I said before, I feel it's pathetic. No offence to anyone, btw=)

Hi everyone. My problem is this: I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend. I do have male friends though and I'm not afraid to start a conversation or anything. It's just I have never managed to find "the one" to share my life with. During my teens I was very shy. I had many hobbies and couldn't go out with my friends due to lack of time. As a result, I lost the contact with my peers, I was completely out of what was going on there. In high-school I used to imagine how the things were and what the people thought instead of hanging out with my classmates and know what they really are like. Plus, I was always told that you shouldn't even think of relationships while you're studying. Thanks the internet, I had a couple of close friends but they only existed in the virtual, I never saw them in real life. Now that I'm in college, I've been trying to create some kind of a social network and I've succeeded in that. I have many good real friends and people to talk to. The only thing that bothers me is that everyone is dating someone except me. Sometimes I catch myself envying them in a good way. I don't want to have relationships only because everybody else has or only because I don't have one. I want it to be real and spontaneous. But even those single guys that I fancy don't sem to be interested in me. I've learned from my teenage mistakes and I'm socially active now. But for some reason I've never had anything more than just a friendship. What's wrong with me? I don't want to stay alone for the rest of my life. I'm already too old to have a "first relationship", I feel abnormal. And I know that the older I get the worse it will be.