Thanks to both of you for helping me out, you bvoth gave REALLY helpfull advice and now i realize- there's no point swelling over this guy, he hurt me in my heart and I've realized that if he could do that- he doesn't deserve my love.
Thank you so much once again, your advice was so good and AzureSkys69
good luck with your partner too, i hope everything turns out OK.
Thank you for everything,
love amy
p.s. thanks for the hugs!!!