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Hey guys. thank you so much everyone for all your help. I talked to my gf for a couple of hours today and everything is alright now. Turns out that it was completely innocent. And that some of the facts i had were wrong. Once again i appreciate everyone elses help so much. You guys are awesome. Hope everything works out for you. Take care laters

Hey rob thanks for the suggestions. it sounds good im thinking about doing that. Well i just sent a long text to my gf. Told her that i jus need to know whats going on. Said that i want to know whether im committing too much to a relationship that dosn;t mean that much to her. I told her im not jealous, simply that i can't get it off my mind and i need to know whats going on so i can think clearly without being overanalytical of anything. I asked her to be honest with me so i hope she is. I really need to get over this. im normally such a happy person i noe this relationship is taking me into a bad place atm. As for my mate, i talked to him the other day. i asked him some questions and told him i really want my relationship to last for as long as possible cuz i am possible in love with this girl or that i really really like her. He was really supportive saying that it would. I really dont know what i should do. But esentially i need to have a clear mind and im going to do whatever i need to do to achieve that. If my gf cares about this relationship she'll understand and help me with it.

Sorry i wasn't aware of the rules. I shall type my posts properly from now on XD. But yeah so heres the thing. I told my gf that i didnt mind the whole lap thing, but i cant get it off my mind. All i can think about is the fact that she dosn' take the relationship as seriously as i am. I don't want to be dragged around in the dirt later on if she decides that she no longer wants this after i commit myself. I seriously have no clue what i should do. Thinking about it is so distracting that im worried im gna lose sight of school. I think im going to ask her why she did it,

Hey. I think i know what your going through. I had a similar situation with my current gf. Its easy to feel sad and upset, but the thing is in the end she is going out with you, so she must like you. For some girls it becomes slightly less intresting after all the initial excitement is over but i found that if you put effort into making her have a good time. ie. making her laugh and happy then she will be satisfied at the end of any date. Now me and her are really close. We never had the friends talk but i felt at one stage that was what was happening. You just have to make it clear through actions that you arnt just her friend i think, Well thats what i think XD.

haha yeh i am extremely pissed at my friend.. but i dno hes my friend and iv talked to him.. not abt this but abt the fact that i really like my gf and i want it to work and hes all supportive and all that ...i really dont wana bring it up with him becuz it hasnt become a big deal yet... but i dno haha from time to time i feel like beating the crap out of him for being such a

Hey thanks guys for your responses....um yeh i was thinking along those lines about respecting the relationship...so i dno.. i really dont wana break up with her caus atm everything is going really good...iv already talked to her about it and told her i get jealous and she jus ended getting mad saying that there was nothing going on and thats just the way she is...but i noe i have stopped checking people out.. i dont even want to flirt anymore.. i jus assumed shed feel the same.. kinda depressing cuz i guess it reflects that she dosnt want it as much as i do..bt i think ill see how it goes. ill have a talk to my friend and tell him to stop doing all this.. cuz hes more to blame.. hes a compulsive flirt sorta thing... bt once again guys i appreciate the help...

Heya guys im 17 atm and me and my gf got together 2 mnths ago.. Heres the thing i have this mate who she met through me... and they seem to always flirt q abit when theyre together..and she told me that the other day they were at a party together and he was a bit touchy feely... she sed she was feeling tired and went to sleep on his lap kinda thing.. i noe it dosnt seem like a really big deal but i dno i still get jealous and feel kinda crappy when it happens... she says im making a mountain out of a molehill i dno i jus feel like he likes her so he flirts with her and she enjoys the attention... i dno wat do u guys think?....