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Alright. This is coming from a guy. I agree with smiles on the fact that moving to fast and to much tongue is a no. My first kiss was awkward, however, she kissed me first. I was standing in the street and her sister went inside and she just tackled me and started making out, I was freaked. My second kiss was just someone random that wanted to know how I kissed, ANYWAY! That is getting off the subject. Back to you Bryan. Make sure your eyes are closed and you don't rush it. Start with a peck on the lips or better yet, to show her you don't wanna move to fast, on the cheek, then back off,look at her a bit, then move in slow towards her, if she lets you then kiss her softly on the lips one time, don't rush it, let her control this. Some people aren't comfortable to kiss after a month or so. Anyway, open eyed kissing is rude, remember to keep them closed, keep the kiss slow, if she wants faster, let her increase the speed. Now to weirdo, from a guy, the dude that tried to make out with you, depending on what it was that you did to refuse, probably either feels stupid or understands that you don't want to. Same thing applies, keep your eyes closed, start it slow, as I said the girl gave me my first kiss and just jumped into a make out session, I was freaked out. Start out by just rubbing his cheek or something, coming from someone I really like, that is something that I enjoy. Then with slow movements just lean in and kiss him with a peck. After the first peck lean back to keep eye contact, then lean in with a more in depth open mouth kiss. Just don't open your eyes, I hate it when girls stare. Good Luck to both of you. I hope my advice helps.

If you haven't asked her to lunch yet and you plan on it....make sure that she is facing the rest of the room, you face the wall, this way, she is the center of attention to you. Just maintain eye contact and such, listen to what she says and don't lie about liking a subject, if she says she likes softball and you don't, BUT you like basketball, tell her your not a big fan of softball, your more of a basketball player, stick on the subject, but don't ruin the moment. BESIDES the worst that can happen is if she says no. However, rejection is hard to deal with. I have had to deal with it 3 times. Good Luck man.

You know, just recently I had a similar problem. Mine was with a girl named....let's say Jill? Anyway, Jill showed interest in me at first, after talking to her for about 3 weeks, she began trying to avoid me, this was soon after I had asked her to a movie, anyway, if I was around she ALWAYS seemed like she was in a hurry. I was getting mixed signals, as you are. So, the best advice I could give you.....is to just go straight up to her, face to face, do NOT write note, that just shows you didn't have the balls to ask her face to face. ANYWAY, go right up to her, if she is in a group of friends, ask her if you could have a minute of her time, and just up and ask her if she has any interest in you. Personally, when I did this, the girl had said, "Not as a boyfriend." thereforeeeeee, I continued talking. She is more comfortable around me now, and we are friends. Just if it does backfire and she says she doesn't like you as a boyfriend, don't stop talking to her. Make a friend out of the situation. Anyway. I hope this helps, just remember, face to face, not a note. I also understand that rejection is hard to deal with, but this is a case that you have to know. Your either making an idiot out of yourself, or your not. Good Luck man.