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It depends entirelly on who it is. I mean, I fear rejection more than i fear death, and bumble-bees, so i would more than love for a girl to make the first move, combined with the fact that i am shy and kind of a wuss makes for a sad love life... Anyway, its your call, but lets be honost, what guy can turn down a girl that shows interest? I mean, thats the first step, then once you get to know eachother ext it will be blissful

Alright, that makes sense. Thank you for your help!

Hi, im new... just so you know before i make an idiot out of myself. Anyway, i recently fell for this girl and decided that i would get her a nice christmas presant and planned on telling her how i felt over a nice dinner or something like that. However, i really don't think i have any remote chance with her, not because i lack self-confidence or anything, the truth just hurts sometimes... but i digress. So, is dinner and a relatively expensive gift coming on too strong if you arent dating or involved with the gift giver? Thanks for the advice!