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I think people sometimes use the word because they want that feeling SO bad, even though they know they are fooling themselve's...

WHY OH WHYYYYYYYYYYYY Can't there be a happy medium???

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And you must remember, not everyone has the same taste when it comes to men. What one may consider "so-so" another may not.

And all women LOVE getting compliments REGARDLESS as to WHO is giving them...so there

Moral of the story:

 

Do not turn your lover in to a hubby. Do not turn your love into a contract. DO NOT GET MARRIED.

 

Live together and when the spark is over, go separate ways.

 

Wink.

Very well put. This is what i plan on doing in all future relationships. I think when you bring that piece of paper into the relationship the romance can most definitely fizzle. I plan to stay single, why can't you have a long term relationship (down the road for me) under two separate roofs?

My version of an ideal relationship that would bloom in such conditions.

Nothing wrong with calling her the next day. Most women, if interested, are really flattered to hear from that potential love interest. It makes them feel wanted, and that can really spark the fire as opposed to silly waiting games.

Go for the gold

at least i...

Don't have to feel stressed out by trying to make conversation with a brick wall

Don't have to feel overwhelmed

Don't have to PRETEND to be INTERESTED

I love his avatar too!! He was a very articulate guy. I read all his posts.

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Whatever did they do back in the day when one didn't have so many sites to read up on - how to pick up a chick?

I personally like no facial hair.

stepped out of the box, taken more risks and believed more in myself.

Don't be scared to make mistakes, I think mistakes are life's best learning tool.

Live for yourself. Live in the moment. Do what you need to do to make YOURSELF happy. I still struggle with wanting that "perfect" someone to complete me, ultimately, you are responsible for your own destiny.

Trust me in saying this, it always happens when you least expect it.

He was such bad news. Leave it in the past, let the cob webs and dust remain on this past chapter. You are where you need to be - and hopefully he is getting what he deserves...

I think a shy guy is adorable. As long as he is interested, puts effort into the convo, has a sense of humour, looks good in red...

LOL - you'll do great

Just tell them that you need some "YOU" time. I love to invite people over just as much as i love to see them go. I think as you get older you become much more comfortable with honesty. Remember, you're doing it for yourself, I would much rather have honesty then to think i'm making someone highly uncomfortable.

Isn't the grass always greener on the other side? is it possible that he is living in some kind of fantasy world, maybe when he wakes up from his coma he'll realize what a big mistake he's made.

And then maybe you'll be emotionally distant to his plea's of forgiveness...you'll be living your new life without regret.

i wish you the best