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First off, thanks for all the responses guys. If I had known you all were so fast in responding I would have posted sooner. Anyways I am pretty sure she does have an idea that I am still into her. Most of my friends have found it pretty obvious when they found out. That is why I wanted to send such a well blunt card, bc im fairly confident she knows how i feel as for the break up. She ended things with an email ( ) telling me that she loved me as a person but wasnt in love with me anymore. Here's a friends theory that I would agree with, "as the distance came, you guys went... separate ways that is. your insecurity and hers mixed in different ways for each of you and the relationship that unfortunately didnt have the foundation that it needed was gone." So again that leaves me with what to do know, maybe a phone call would be best, but I have a new cell phone # that she would likely ignore. Also I dont think I have the courage to talk on the phone. I would still like to send the card but do it a little more casually, use the quote, but mention I'd like to go out for coffee and talk about things.

Long time reader, first time poster. I met my ex in residence last year in University. We dated for four months and were there for each other all of the time. But as the summer came I had to move 8.5 hours away. With us both having to work to keep going to school we never saw each other. Slowly but surely our insecurities tore us apart. On July 4th (Independence Day, I Know Ironic isn't) we broke up. She dumped me and pretty much since that day I have tried to get over her. Around November I thought I had, I even started dating someone else. But at the start of Decemeber we got together for our best friends birthday. And it was unreal, to me at least it was like nothing had changed. We laughed and talked it just felt so unbelievably right and natural. Afterwards I talked about my ex with the said best friend, and the friend told me to go for it and be true to the feelings i have. This was on Dec 4th, exactly 5 months later. So know it's time for the hard part. I've developed a gameplan loosely based on the movie Love Actually, I am going to send her a X-mas card with one sentimental picture a small note, and this quote from the movie, "But for now let me say, Just because it's Christmas, and at Christmas you tell the truth, To me you are perfect." Really hoping it works, all i want for X-mas is her. Any suggestions or concerns please let me know.