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I really don't have that much faith at this point. She always has an excuse this past week, whether it is valid or not, if you like someone you make time for them. I played it off cool, but I feel like I have invested too much already and don't want to get hurt anymore than I already have. At first she played this whole game about how guys are not worth her time since her last BF and so I tried hard to show her that yes I am worth her time. And that I wouldn't back down and would pursue her and she seemed to really enjoy this attitude. But now I don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that I really like her that much. That would only make me look stupid. She is not in school, but she is a workohilic and spends an obscene amount of time working late. But don't tell me there is not 20 mins. in a day to talk, call, or visit all weekend!

Ok so I was in the beginning stages of dating this cute, smart and outgoing girl. In fact everything that I was looking for in a partner, she fit the bill. We went out once a week for a month and there was never a dull moment between us. We slept together after a few dates and she admitted that I was the best she had ever had and that she felt really comfortable being naked with me. Well this past week the contact has dwindled and she is always too busy to go out. There is nothing that I can pinpoint that I did wrong. I have not heard from her in 3 days. It confuses the heck out of me, but obviously she found someone else or just is not interested (ya it really hurts to admit that but this seems to be the case). Seems cowardly on her part to not let me know, especially since we have a mutual friend and will see each other from time to time. Problem is, I can’t get her out of my mind. I went out this weekend and didn’t enjoy myself because every so often I would think about what she was doing and why she wasn’t here to enjoy the night with me. I am always checking my phone and e-mail, hoping that she has called. Question. How do I get over this girl? How do I get her out of my mind? How do I move on quicker? I am wasting so much time over this one girl. I tried to find a new girl this weekend but I just didn’t have the drive to go after another girl. Why am I having a hard time getting over a girl that I never really had? ahhhh Please help!!